"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wildchild

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I find swingcats techniques very interesting I have used a few just from his emails like tension loops and push/pull techniques anyone else got any more examples or wanna comment on swing cat?..thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kaine

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Highly recommend Swing Cats book.

Without going into detail, he manages to verbalise, detail and clarify a lot of the methods I have been using women at my level of knowledge. Very valuable for anyone short or LTR related.

I consider this as part of my big three of must reads, including Doc Love and DeAngelo

Kaine
 

wildchild

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I have deangelos book find it very good. The techniques i found in swingcats emails are amazing the tip he had on this site was great the one about tension loops it worked so well each time i used it. I also need to know were i can find the tip about when a girl says she has a boyfriend and you reply " good he can make us breakfast in bed and bring us orange juice" was that swing cat as well?
 

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I also like GunWitch's Dynamic Sex Life.

Hell, read what you can and practice.
 
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