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Swimming workout

DJUofS

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Hey guys, I was wondering if anyone could offer some advice on a decent swimming workout. Here's the deal:

I am going away tomorrow to the shore. I am not going to run on the boardwalk because of the mass of people. However, I will have access to a swimming pool so I am planning on doing a morning workout every day in it. My problem is, I never did a swimming workout before. I know how to swim, that's about it.

I am thinking it wouldn't be good to just swim back and forth because I will just get tired fast, so what do you guys suggest? Any input is appreciated.
 

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Originally posted by DJUofS
I am thinking it wouldn't be good to just swim back and forth because I will just get tired fast, so what do you guys suggest? Any input is appreciated.
Hmmm...it's probably a good work out simply swimming back and forth for a while if it makes you tired fast. I'm sure, after some time, you'll be able to swim for a longer period of time than when you're just starting out.

Good luck!
 

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For the most part, any pool shorter than 25 yards isn't going to be much worth your time, and I don't know of any people around here that have 25 yard-long private pools.

Even just tiring yourself out is going to do you more good than just sitting around, at any rate.
 
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