"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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swimming with eyes open

AFC-Murdaz

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HOW THE **** DO YOU GUYS DO IT??

I find it amazing! I was using my goggle today and one of my date opened her eyes and end up choking cause she was laughing I need one and she doesn't, so a lot of kino was done

but that's not the point

the point is

HOW?!! I thought it was the movie only!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is retarded.

How can you NOT swim with your eyes open? Its not difficult.

Anyway, you should avoid opening your eyes if in a pool because of the chlorine.
 

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this is not retarded, just because you can doesn't mean others can

when I open my eyes in the water, I feel a shock and it hurts when I remove my head from the water
then I continue to feel dizzy and naseau however you spell that word
 

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Originally posted by AFC-Murdaz
this is not retarded, just because you can doesn't mean others can

when I open my eyes in the water, I feel a shock and it hurts when I remove my head from the water
then I continue to feel dizzy and naseau however you spell that word
Double bump man. How old are you, anyways? :)
 

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Originally posted by AFC-Murdaz
this is not retarded, just because you can doesn't mean others can

when I open my eyes in the water, I feel a shock and it hurts when I remove my head from the water
then I continue to feel dizzy and naseau however you spell that word
Why are you posting about this asking HOW we do it? Its not a physical limitation for you, its just extra sensitive for you. Big deal - wear goggles.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well for god's sake I just want to know how you guys do it, what's so hard about that? jeez

renegade and I wants to know, so answer our question

I'm 18 btw
 

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Keep em open, you'll get used to it. First it's awkward, then i gets easier. If you swim everyday, use eye protection, otherwise, the choice is up to you. However, we're not fish, so you won't see too well without goggles.
 

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How people do it - they go underwater and open their eyes. Some even leave their eyes open as they go underwater.

Well, you wanted to know how people do it right?

If you want to know why some people can and why you can't, well that's already been answered. Some people's eyes are more sensitive than others, therefore those with less sensitive eyes don't get as irritated by water.
 

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My eyes are extremely irritated by water, but even worse, my nose is. I have a deviated septum, and I can't stop water from going into my nose, unless I blow out of my nose the entire time I'm underwater. So I have to wear the goggles that cover your eyes AND nose when I'm in the pool. But since I hate the pool, it isn't much of an issue...we have one @ home, and I havent been in it in 3 or 4 years.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by AFC-Murdaz
ok thanks to those who responded

ill just force myself to get used to it
try getting ocean water into your eyes. Once you can accustom yourself to that, the pool will be nothin!

Also, be sure not to think about it. Just dive into the pool and open your eyes right away. The adrenaline should take care of any hesitation and psychologically influenced pain you experience.
 

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Why not just wear freaking goggles, and not care what some random girl thinks? If it makes you more comfortable, do it.
 

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Originally posted by AFC-Murdaz
ok thanks to those who responded

ill just force myself to get used to it
Yea man.

I tried it once and my eyes nearly popped out from being irritated, haha.
 
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