"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sweetest day? gift what?

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do i need to get a girl anything for this rediculus occasion, i mean we've been together for 2 months but what do I get someone for this day. Aparently its like valantines day or something. What do you guys think should I just not get anything? I don't wanna look like an AFC you know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two months? never heard that before, but women love this stuff. Personally I wouldn't buy them zilch for passing the eight week mark, unless you are exchanging gifts of similar value, then what the hell.
 
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yeah i doubt she is giving me anything for it, but she kinda made a big deal out of it last night, so might be a hint. I dunno.
 
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Originally posted by SweetSassyMalasy
do i need to get a girl anything for this rediculus occasion, i mean we've been together for 2 months but what do I get someone for this day. Aparently its like valantines day or something. What do you guys think should I just not get anything? I don't wanna look like an AFC you know.
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DONT get her anything big. This "holiday" is bull****!

I wouldnt give her anything at all.

Id be like "Im your present. now unwrap your gift" (looks down at my pants fly)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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