"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sweet talkers.

Phat

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Does anyone notice that sweet talking a girl works? i wish i knew how to do this.

Can anyone here give me some examples.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SlyD4rK

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3 words: read the bible

then: take an inciative to try everything you have learned.

finally:take part in the boot guide so you can hone your skillz

(well thats my plan anyway :D
 

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It really depends on a girl. What's she like, how she was raised, is she naive, is she a virgin, all that and more. It also depends on your timing and the situation.

I sweet talked my girl out of considering a breakup earlier today by telling her how I felt about her. But I took into account that she wanted a breakup BECAUSE she didn't know how I felt about her, and that we've been together for over a year. Thus, I said some things I would have never said to a fb/short term material.
 
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