"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sweet talkers.

Phat

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Does anyone notice that sweet talking a girl works? i wish i knew how to do this.

Can anyone here give me some examples.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3 words: read the bible

then: take an inciative to try everything you have learned.

finally:take part in the boot guide so you can hone your skillz

(well thats my plan anyway :D
 

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It really depends on a girl. What's she like, how she was raised, is she naive, is she a virgin, all that and more. It also depends on your timing and the situation.

I sweet talked my girl out of considering a breakup earlier today by telling her how I felt about her. But I took into account that she wanted a breakup BECAUSE she didn't know how I felt about her, and that we've been together for over a year. Thus, I said some things I would have never said to a fb/short term material.
 
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