Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sweet revenge.. gone wrong?

Finch

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I did something kind of dumb. I live here at the dorms at my college and was unlucky enough to get the same dorm as my ex girlfriend. In fact she is probably not even 5 feet away from me.. I live directly above her.

Now our relationship has been over for a very long time. I'm currently involved in a strong and committed 6 month relationship to a girl I'm totally crazy about. She knows about my ex, knows she lives below me, and doesn't have any problem with it because she knows I don't have feelings for her. She has several classes with her actually and they knew each other as acquaintances from high school.

There has been a recent problem with my ex because she's been trying to get my girlfriend to hang out with her and this guy friend of hers that has a huge crush on my gf. She's been kind of interested in our relationship lately.. asking about a recent promise ring I gave her. My ex was really curious about the meaning that she begged me to explain it to her for 40 minutes. My ex is involved too, and claims to be happy in her relationship of close to a year, so I don't know what to think. So because of this my ex has been in a lot of recent discussions and my girlfriend was a little worried that maybe I might have feelings for my ex still. I found out about this and I explained to her that I really hate this girl (She had my parents house vandalized, she's nuts!). My girlfriend seemed to be satisfied.

Well the little bit*chs that live down stairs have been throwing tomatoes at our window because they're not too fond of my suite mate who happens to be my best friend. We had to get them back. So there was this gross used condom in my trash bin. And I mean it was f-ing gross.. lol.. she wasn't completely off her period so it was still a little red and full of ***. Anyway, we wrapped it around my ex's door knob.

Thinking about it later I think that was a bad idea.. a really dumb idea. Just because I wouldn't be too comfortable with my girlfriend staying in a dorm with her ex and putting used condoms on his door. That's kind of f-ed up. Not to mention the recent problems we've been having with her. And also it could be embarrassing for my girlfriend having her bloody condom displayed.

So I have to tell her I think. At least before my ex does, if she ever does. She might. Anyway, I'm just going to tell her how it is. I'll tell her what happened and explain to her that it was just a bad joke gone wrong. Maybe I'm totally expecting the worse and it's nothing.. but you never know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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spider_007

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play dumb, you know notting:cool:
say: i'm not the only one who this biach has problems with, who's to say it wasn't somebody else.....

somehaw i don't think your g/f is gona recognize the condom
 

sexysuave

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Don't say sh*t! Do not have conversations with your ex. anymore! If she says hi, say hi and that's it, the END, no begging for any explanations, no nothing. She will ruin you dude, you can't play at her level, so dont' even try. Stay away from the ex.
 

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that was really dumb, wait....no it was stupid.

hide in the closet.
 

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I wouldnt say a word !!!! Do your roomates know you did it. If you did it solo and the only people that know u put the rubber on the door are on this forum then dont say anything at all... It was a very very very dumb move on your part.. Tomatoes should never be followed up by blood and semen filled condoms... its like dropping an atomic bomb on someone that hit you with a paper airlplane !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finch

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I know it was so stupid. I don't even know why I did it. Maybe it was a final act of revenage for the past relationship too? Who knows.

Anyway, I can't deny it. The condom is unqiue. The chances that somebody else would have put a yellow, bloody condom on the door knob is slim.

I gotta tell her what's up. That's just going to be a trip.
 

frivolousz21

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tell her to shut her fycking hole grow up and leave you alone.

you guys are acting like freaking 12 yr old children? and your in college??

geez..maybe im an old man..but that stuff we did at age 15 and 16.


tell her to stay away from you and your bussiness.


you need to grow some balls and lay your ground out...no ex of mine will breathe a word to my current gf..
 
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