"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sweet gesture vs. Supplication?

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Curious on everyone's feedback here. What defines an act of kindness towards a woman versus supplicating?


Going out to grab coffee or donuts?
Leaving work, grabbing lunch, and dropping it off?
Buying something you think they might like while you are shopping?

Is there a way to define it? Now I realize this is completely subjective as many people are just not natural givers, so any action to them will come with an expectation of a return. But where does the line get drawn? What is fair?

Is it not the action,but more of the affects afterward?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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