Sweden is very much a country run along femineist principles. Even the founder of Wikileks Julian Assage, forgive me for my spelling, is supposed to face sex charges which most people in other countries would call rather questionable.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Relax my young white knight, your time will come to save the fair maidens...this isn't one of those times.Serg897 said:And the ugly misogynists come out of the woodwork for this thread.
Just FYI.The Mature Man
A forum for DJs at least 25 years old to discuss problems
You're either ignorant or naive, or both.Who Dares Win said:Do you really think that the high number of muslims in there will allow that madness to castrate their sons and unleash their daughters?
I would rather pick a religious integralist as a negotiate partner than a politically correct drone, from the first one some logic can be obtained.
At first I was surprised about your post, then your activity in the homosexuality thread where you complained about censorhsip due to your "enlighting posts" and discrimination from a moderator came in my mind.Down Low said:You're either ignorant or naive, or both.
Muslim boys are programmed to follow around a female first cousin to "protect the honor of the family" (from legal, socially accepted rape). Since he's the only one who's with her all the time, when they start to develop sexual feelings, they turn toward each other. In the classic Westermarck paradox, they're sexually repelled from a family member of the opposite sex, but when manipulated into performing sex with one another, develop a livelong sexual relationship of mutual disgust, cheating, and hatred.
Sephardic Jews and Gypsies just go straight to uncles fvcking and marrying their blood nieces and nieces by marriage and cousins and sisters and whoever is stupid enough to open a door to them.
Since highly inbred people have deep emotional problems, lower intelligence, and a whole slew of genetic defects, there's no hope for humanity in fighting radical liberal hyper feminism with radical conservative hyper masculinism.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.