"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Sweaty Hands! Make it stop!

Bigg Boss

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
188
Reaction score
0
I wish I could control it. They only get sweaty when I'm in situations that I should be nervous. But of course after reading the dj bible and going out more than a few times this year, there's no reason to be! But still, my hands sweat. Even when I'm with my own girl! And you know that sucks. I know it bothers her but it's not a relationship killer. She even tries to dry it off with her own hands (that's not going to work honey).

I'm good at kino, and if I could just stop this problem, I really think I could step my game up. What should I do? Is there some powder in stores that prevent hands from sweating or something?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Wiesman44

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2004
Messages
1,341
Reaction score
14
some people have naturally clammy hands. You were born with it. Its genetics. There's nothing u can do to stop it permanently. Only thing u can do is bring a hankerchief or something to wipe your hands on, unless u dont mind wiping your hands on your pants.
 

OfficeSpace

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2006
Messages
513
Reaction score
3
Location
Dallas, Texas
There is actually surgery for sweaty hands, although I'm not sure you would wanna go that far...

Just wipe your hands on your pants before you touch her or whatever. I've got sweaty hands, but I wiped them on my pants and stuff so it was fine.

Only during basketball tournaments do I put powder on my hands so they are dry during my games. But if you like hold hands with your girlfriend when walking, I would suggeest walking elbow in elbow... that's great too!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

WestCoast1492

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2005
Messages
57
Reaction score
0
You don't need surgery.

Go to a dermatologist and ask for "Drysol".


I used it in High School, it's a liquid you apply to your hands right before you go to bed, it really does work.. You won't sweat quite as profusely from your palms. I don't use it anymore b/c my palms don't sweat as much as they used to.
 
Top