"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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this is the best way to boost your masculinity: go out there and work your ass off, with no intention of impressing a girl in mind, of course

working out is good, but i unconsicously like to think of the girls who will lust after me and my packs, although this is a good way to set goals, it can be counter productive.

i just went swimming with a few friends at the beach, mow the lawn, repaint a friend's house too, all summer jobs, i find that there is no better feeling than a few good male friends working together and cooperating, and all that stuff and mindset which you try to adopt with women are all at the back of your mind--when you feel this bond with your friends and how beautiful your life really is, everything becomes spontaneous, and you permeate confidence, especially with girls

i can say for sure that my success with women doubled or tripled everytime i spent quality time with my friends, playing sports, or doing a project together.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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