"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this is the best way to boost your masculinity: go out there and work your ass off, with no intention of impressing a girl in mind, of course

working out is good, but i unconsicously like to think of the girls who will lust after me and my packs, although this is a good way to set goals, it can be counter productive.

i just went swimming with a few friends at the beach, mow the lawn, repaint a friend's house too, all summer jobs, i find that there is no better feeling than a few good male friends working together and cooperating, and all that stuff and mindset which you try to adopt with women are all at the back of your mind--when you feel this bond with your friends and how beautiful your life really is, everything becomes spontaneous, and you permeate confidence, especially with girls

i can say for sure that my success with women doubled or tripled everytime i spent quality time with my friends, playing sports, or doing a project together.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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