"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sweat

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nikko49

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haha that sux

yeah, i have been taking 10-15 minute breaks. i just don't like to because it's hard getting back into the dance, and having to repeat like 4 times a night.

i am not getting botox injections. maybe i should bring 2 shirts that are similar, and change, lol
 

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i have prescription anti perspirant that works really well for my pits. try that. ask your doctor about it at your next check up
 

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Underarmor solved it for me. wear one underneath your outer clothes and air it out every little bit, drys off quickly.

i'll usually back that up with an Anti-perspirant.

Deodorants = masking smell
Anti-perspirants = blocking pores

use at your own discretion, though some people feel that the aluminum in A.P.s damages you more than helps.

and yes, Doctors have some hardcore Anti-Sweat meds.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wearing an undershirt of any kind makes a huge difference in terms of keeping your outer clothing dry. underarmor or the equivalent will give the best results but a cotton T is better than nothing.
 

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nikko49 said:
alright, like i said i was going to try it this time but decided not to

next dance i go to i will be fully armed with underarmor and antiperspirant!
Just to clarify, i used to go to raves and dance like a madman for hours on end with an underarmor shirt on, and compared to everybody else i was the sahara.

Sweat Efficiency = higher stamina = clear thoughts

:D
 
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