She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yeah i noticed lately, that NO anti perspirant works at all.. and i would sweat all the time.. just in my armpit area... i hate it. Its so unprofessional and embarrassing.. and it would always soak through any shirt.Originally posted by payaya
Hey all since ive joined the gym a month ago, ive been sweating a lot more than i use to when i go out! Am i just being crazy? Or does being more active/fit make you generally sweat more?
if so how are some ways to make you sweat less? i use antipersirant stuff, it doesnt work!
thanks
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yes it think, it would be the case.Originally posted by Maurizio
Do you do Cardio at the gym?
Cardio will train your body to regulate heat better, and at the first indication that it is heating up. What this means is that you will start to sweat at cooler temperatures, and sweat more at comperable temps.
I've been a serious endurance athlete for a few years now, and if the temperature hits around 70F, then NO anti-persperant can stop the sweat from coming. My body thinks I'm working out, and will try to cool down.
This could be the case with you.
- Maurizio