Swearing during sex

[Cinamon]

I took a guys virginity last night, it was more of a guided tour of the female body, and how to stimulate it. Anyway, he knew that this was a one time deal and I werent going to see him again after this and he was cool with it.

Personality wise, he is a very good little sikh man, semi-religious and seems to hail from a respectable family.

Well during sex, once i get going, i tend to swear alot, and i was calling him all sorts, like u filthy b@stard, etc. Afterwards he told me the swearing was really disturbing for him. I can help but curse during sex, is this wrong, should i not be doing this? Although i never thought about this before, i think this may have driven a couple of guys away. He also said I was too rough with him in bed... is that off putting?

 

[jacob]

yeah I don't like it when girls are overexaggerating it. It's like there putting on an act. I prefer them to be discreet and really concentrating on the feel. Then if a little moan comes out it's more believable like she couldn't help it. It makes me think they're really into it and concentrating and enjoying it.

But if she's loud like how you say you are then it won't be a turn off if she squirts, this way I know she's not just acting.

 

[KontrollerX]

Its hot.

The only guys you are going to drive away with swearing during sex are guys you won't want to be with longterm anyway since most guys put off by this are pvssies or religious saps.

You are a very bad girl Cinamon and bad girls need bad boys to be happy. :yes:

 

[RFish]

You are a very bad girl Cinamon and bad girls need bad boys to be happy.

LOL. True.

 

[scrouds]

watch your f*cking mouth you filthy wh0re

 

[Mike32ct]

There is nothing wrong with swearing or being rough Per Se. However, it may have been too much for a good guy virgin. Maybe he wanted a more gentle first time .

I would save the rough and dirty stuff for more experienced partners.

 

[radiodude]

I took a guys virginity last night, it was more of a guided tour of the female body, and how to stimulate it. Anyway, he knew that this was a one time deal and I werent going to see him again after this and he was cool with it.

Personality wise, he is a very good little sikh man, semi-religious and seems to hail from a respectable family.

Well during sex, once i get going, i tend to swear alot, and i was calling him all sorts, like u filthy b@stard, etc. Afterwards he told me the swearing was really disturbing for him. I can help but curse during sex, is this wrong, should i not be doing this? Although i never thought about this before, i think this may have driven a couple of guys away. He also said I was too rough with him in bed... is that off putting?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with this as far as I'm concerned.

I've always needed to have someone with that type of attitude in the sack to really have a fun time.

 

[PeeGee]

What is this some sort of socially transmitted means of trivializing a woman's sexual experience to placate insecure men?

I don't get how a woman enjoying herself during sex can ever be a bad thing.

 

[shaunuk]

Nah man, I think it's hot when girls swear when they're getting f*cked. And all the girls I f*ck are gonna hear my swearing whether they like it or not as well.

He's probably just sexually reserved right now because he was a virgin and religious....or maybe the religion has just turned into a pvssy. You've already got a pvssy, you don't need another one :crackup:

 

[frisco]

Me personaly, I like a mixture of rough dirty sex, A little senual, and straight up porn style, You like my big **** in you you sweet little inncoent ***** lol just me though

O and Cinamon do you prefer to be called a B**ch or a Who**re in bed?

 

[Furyguy]

he is a very good little sikh man

So how did the huge beard feel when he was going down on you?

Be honest, I've heard both ways and I want a real opinion.

 

[Cinamon]

I try not to swear, but it just comes out, and if anything the swearing is encouragement on my behalf.

watch your f*cking mouth you filthy wh0re

Thats another thing, i gave him full reign to call me a filthy *****, *****, etc and he did neither. I really love the trash talking.

So how did the huge beard feel when he was going down on you?


I had mentioned to him in passing before that i dont like beards, cause the scratch the inside of my thighs, so he shaved it. I know that was kind of a big deal for sikhs, as it is mandatory, but i didnt ask him to do it, he just did it. I guess he was thinkin I am gonna be sinning anyway, what diff does it make if its one or two.

You are a very bad girl Cinamon and bad girls need bad boys to be happy

I know, but the less experienced out there need some guidance too... i like to think of it as community service, but i will keep it off the resume for now

 

[radiodude]

Dirty talk is probably one of the best things about sex. It can actually ruin the experience for me if it isn't done enough.

 

[ksmith798]

I think every guy that's not a virgin agrees that swearing and talking dirty in the sack is very hot

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

I know I'm not the only one curious.
A pic of you, please!

 

[Tazman]

It all depends on the delivery. If it sounds fake and contrived (or too loud) it will be a turn off, for me at least.

 

[Lexington]

It all depends on the guy. I personally don't mind some cursing. I like a girl that's very aggressive and passionate in bed. Some guys prefer the quiet more discreet ones. It all depends on taste.

 

[Dannyrt34]

I know, but the less experienced out there need some guidance too... i like to think of it as community service, but i will keep it off the resume for now

Where are you from? Cause I have a friend that's 24 and needs some guidance. Maybe you can give him the special treatment:cuss:

I keep joking that he'll be the star of the next 40 year old virgin. Please cinamon, show him the light, lol.

 

[jacob]

It all depends on the delivery. If it sounds fake and contrived (or too loud) it will be a turn off, for me at least.

Amen

 

[Cinamon]

Challenge guy, I love these forums because they are annonymous, so I can be fully honest without anyone knowing its me. In the majority of my social circles I portray the good little muslim girl image, so i dont want to jeapordise that. I am happy to e mail u my pic so long as u dont live in the UK.

lol @ Danny. I live in the UK, I think i am done with amateurs for a few months now, maybe next year. lol