"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Svengali's Ten Rules

Maximus_Decimus

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For all you noobs and AFCs, here are a few words of wisdom from
Svengali, a person that used to post at alt.seduction.fast:

Originally posted by Svengali
Let's get you fitted with some night glasses so you can see everything a lot more clearly, so you can do as you were born to do.

1) First off, and this is going to go against everyting mom, sis, auntie and the nuns/teachers told you, women want men who don't want them nearly as much as the women do.

2) Second, when you want a woman more then she wants you, you'll want to know why she is with and wants me, more then you.

3) Third, give to her only after she has given to you.

4) Fourth, if you're looking for a long term, committed, singular
relationship {not my cup of tea, but each to their own}, make the
relationship more important then the woman. This way a part (woman) can be plucked out and replaced with another, and you still have what you wanted.

5) Fifth (paste this some place where you'll always see it), the moment a woman sees she'll get whatever she wants from you, you've lost your value and sparkle in her eyes.

6) Sixth (paste this some place where you'll always see it), when a woman sees you as undesirable, you'll be taken for granted and walked all over. {Nothing makes a woman see you as desirable, more then another woman finding interest in you.}

7) Seventh: If you don't give a woman something to be pissed about every now and then, she'll find something on her own, and that will be harder to get out of (because it will be of her making and criteria, not yours).

8) Eight: Women are very UNstable creatures. Never assume that she will like, love, want or anything else ten minutes from now, as she does now. {Ride the moment, for in a few moments its all going to change.}

9) Nine: If you don't direct her, she is going to direct both herself and you. And what a merry-go-round that is.

10) Ten: Want a ten, okay, here's a ten.
You can find more wisdom from Svengali at:

http://fastseduction.com/archives/archive_svengali.zip

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bumping Svengali's Ten Rules. Ignore my comment that his advice is only useful for AFCs. As I reread Svengali's rules again, it can provide insight for even the most experienced DJs.

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EXCELLENT ADVICE!!!!!!!!

This is straightforward and solid foundation material and a much better guide than the DJ Bible in my opinion. I would love to see these stickied somewhere.

1, 5, 6 and 8 have been 100% accurate in my own experience.

My only gripe is that the grammar is a bit confusing. 5 star tip nonetheless!
 

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lol yeah "for all ya noobZ" isnt the best commercial for your thread :D but indeed good advice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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#4 really struck a cord with me........when he said make the relationship more important than the woman, that way, the woman can be replaced with another and you still have what you wanted.....if you focus on how you want the relationship to be and you don't see the woman living up to it, it willl be much easier to can her.

When first reading this i misconstrued the word 'replaced' with 'altered'.....i think this works too, when you are dominant and ambititous working towards how YOU want the relationship to be, you will be able to make her change to fit your views. So you will, in effect, be able to ALTER some of her bad habits to conform to your ideas, if you are a real man......thats just what I was thinking when I read focusing on the relationship rather than the girl.
 
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