"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mtlwlu

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Hey guys been awhile since I posted on here,

Anyways Im working on a new plate HB 8.5, super nice girl and has the same humour as me (therefore Im placing her in potential relationship catergory)

Ive always had a problem with over thinking and over analyzing but theres been some interesting things shes done/said that makes me believe shes showing IOI's

such as:
After working on a project together, I said "you know you should hook me up with a hot roomate of yours, for helping you get this S*** done"

she responded "Or i could hook you up with me"

a few seconds later she did the "just kidding" line.
(now would she really say that if she was kidding? I have a hard time believing so)

Also worked some little kino on her, responded well

Her and I are getting together again soon and shes like "Ill bring over a 26er to your house and we'll get this essay done." Im like "so you can take advantage of me "(in a sarcatic tone) and she said "yes"

The only thing really worrying me is that shes a pretty popular girl with the guys, so competition maybe feirce. I use neg hits alot on her which works well.

Keep building up kino, go in for a kiss, ask her out on a legit date?

any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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horaholic

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Forget the date. She wants you to nail her. You already have the excuse for her to be at your house. And no, a chick probably wouldn't kid like that. That 'few seconds' before she said 'just kidding' was meant for you to say "alright, lets go"

She's there for the taking, so take her before someone else does. They will only show IOIs for a very short time, and if you dont grow some gahones and go for it now, she'll close that window, and then you will get to listen to tell you how much of a jerk her new man is.
 

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"or I could hook you up with me" = Why aren't you fvcking me right now!

I had a girl say that before (who is a blonde 9.) That night I nailed the crap out of her. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't even think twice-- I would say something like: "yes, you could" and go for it right there.
 

mtlwlu

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Well I got a date with her for Monday at a new resturant in town.

Heres what I did, I didnt even give her an option to say no

"We'll go get dinner then finish off the project at my house" I mean hypothedically she could of said no at that, but I guess I leaned her into the answer I wanted. :) Im F***** stoked.
 

MisterMcGee

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ew dude youre making **** boring by going to dinner. she wants to ****, not sit and watch you eat while you 'talk'.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ARrocket

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Yeah dude, I don't know if dinner is the best idea here...perhaps you should "move that to another date because you have to help somebody with something first." There will be plenty of time for all that later ;)
 

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yea by the way you made her sound, why would you take the indirect prostitution route, and pay for a meal, then fvck her. She wants some pee-pee and you must give it to her. So you should have just been like lets grab some beers and get this shlt done.
 
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