"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Suspending female interest?

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I often read when meeting girls for the first time, if they are interested, there is a window of opportunity in which to act and seduce them.

However how does one deal with this in a situation where your entering a large social circle with predominantly girls where many seam to take an interest in you?

You can't sleep with all of them as this would backfire so you have to select one to add to your plate collection.

The best strategy would be to go for the "best one" there. However if this fails then one has to step down the ladder to the "second best" etc...

However wouldn't this cause the other girls to lose interest as there window of interest in me closes?

I'm thinking that the best strategy would be to indicate sexual interest (flirt) with all the girls there (for example using touch) without escalating to actual sex to keep them interested. What do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I often read when meeting girls for the first time, if they are interested, there is a window of opportunity in which to act and seduce them.

However how does one deal with this in a situation where your entering a large social circle with predominantly girls where many seam to take an interest in you?

You can't sleep with all of them as this would backfire so you have to select one to add to your plate collection.

The best strategy would be to go for the "best one" there. However if this fails then one has to step down the ladder to the "second best" etc...

However wouldn't this cause the other girls to lose interest as there window of interest in me closes?

I'm thinking that the best strategy would be to indicate sexual interest (flirt) with all the girls there (for example using touch) without escalating to actual sex to keep them interested. What do you guys think?
You can play around and even sleep with some of them. Women look at it differently. Just make sure that you are unavailable for commitment at this time.
 

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"Window of opportunity"... I don't buy it! I've had low interest level chicks come after me, months after I've shown any interest. Walking away works.
 

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You can have chicks passively orbit you indefinitely if you connect with them on social media. Only do this with one account at a time, and whichever one has higher value. For me, I use instagram.

Women will ghost out of my life, but I've had at least a half dozen of them contact me after a few months just to "see what's up." They get reminded when they periodically see one of your posts.

When I first meet a chick, I usually have 2-3 weeks to hook her. I will usually ask her out right there or ask her out the following weel. If for whatever reason we don't get together in 2-3 weeks due to scheduling (I find myself more busy than the chicks usually), I try to exchange instagram information so we can passively orbit each other until I run through a slow patch.
 

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I often read when meeting girls for the first time, if they are interested, there is a window of opportunity in which to act and seduce them.

However how does one deal with this in a situation where your entering a large social circle with predominantly girls where many seam to take an interest in you?

You can't sleep with all of them as this would backfire so you have to select one to add to your plate collection.

The best strategy would be to go for the "best one" there. However if this fails then one has to step down the ladder to the "second best" etc...

However wouldn't this cause the other girls to lose interest as there window of interest in me closes?

I'm thinking that the best strategy would be to indicate sexual interest (flirt) with all the girls there (for example using touch) without escalating to actual sex to keep them interested. What do you guys think?

Tough situation.


Personally, I'd go with the sleazebag option.


I'd target the whole group with some funny bullshvt and see whom laughs the loudest at your purposely corny joke. Target that one and attempt to seduce her. If you succeed then that is all. If you fail, rinse and repeat until you succeed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tough situation.


Personally, I'd go with the sleazebag option.


I'd target the whole group with some funny bullshvt and see whom laughs the loudest at your purposely corny joke. Target that one and attempt to seduce her. If you succeed then that is all. If you fail, rinse and repeat until you succeed.
You can bang a whole group of females and they all be OK with it... If you are good in bed each one will add to the groups perceived value.
 

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Given my current low level of expertise I am first going to try to plate a single girl whilst orbiting other interest.

I love the feedback you guys are giving me and would love to learn more how to specifically get woman into my orbit?

For example:
  • Do I flirt without escalating?
  • If I can escalate, how far can I escalate?
  • Do I flirt physically?
  • Do I flirt verbally?
  • Do I need to flirt covertly? Or can I flirt in the open as long as I don't escalate?
Give me a few strategies and theories as to how you would handle this situation.
 
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