Surviving Marathon Sex

[JoeMarron]

You're on vacation with your girl and you're pretty much stuck with her for a few days. She has a high libido/wants it all the time. She like many other women don't understand that men can't get hard on command and bang it out for multiple sessions in a day without negative repercussions. How do you guys handle situations like this?

 

[cordoncordon]

Just say no?

 

[confuscioused]

give her tons of oral, fingers, vibrator, than flip her over for a 69 er session, get your weiner hard through her blowing you than flip her over and nail her again and again, cuddle in between and take your time doing this. Fun dilemma to have dude.

 

[Bible_Belt]

veeee-vaaaaaaaa viiiiiiii-aagra....

 

[mrmention]

I had this with an ex some time back and although I have a high drive myself, 3-4 times a night was tiring!!

Best thing is to drink a can of Monster just before!

 

[zinc4]

i make excuses or suggest to masturbate together...that way you don't have the pressure of staying hard and can still help her get off or watch her get off while u do as well...recommended to turn the tv on while doing this so u won't get bored if you aren't feeling it

 

[C-quenced]

This is a "problem" I wish I had. It seems rather abnormal for your girl to have a higher sex drive than your own. Something I have yet to experience.

As ridiculous as it might sound quit the porn. This is at the core of many problems when it comes to guys as it tends to override our sex drives and causes a mess of other problems. It can even lead to erectile dysfunction.

 

[zinc4]

This is a "problem" I wish I had. It seems rather abnormal for your girl to have a higher sex drive than your own. Something I have yet to experience.

As ridiculous as it might sound quit the porn. This is at the core of many problems when it comes to guys as it tends to override our sex drives and causes a mess of other problems. It can even lead to erectile dysfunction.

fact: most women have higher sex drives than men...at least in my experience...difference is they have to feel some emotional trigger for a guy first or "like" him...

if u don't experience this than their IL is not that high...they are all horny as hell trust me.....i can always tell when their IL drops...by how often they initiate or hint to sex in a relationship...

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

A woman on vacation has a fantasy built up in her mind, which includes new places, food, and phucking.

If she's with her bf and he doesn't step up to the plate and give her a good constant railing while on vacation, odds are she'll be looking to upgrade soon once she's back to daily reality.

So if you fail to get your stiffy on command, go down on her, lick her all over, take a shower together, play with her nipples as she uses one of her toys...whatever you got to do.

It would be different if these were her demands everyday after your 9-5 job and you were just tired sometimes and need her to understand your need to wind down.

But on vacation, a girl has this whole mental image about how it's supposed to go down and if you want to maintain her view of you as a high value you are going to have to show her a good time.

 

[TheCWord]

A woman on vacation has a fantasy built up in her mind, which includes new places, food, and phucking.

If she's with her bf and he doesn't step up to the plate and give her a good constant railing while on vacation, odds are she'll be looking to upgrade soon once she's back to daily reality.

So if you fail to get your stiffy on command, go down on her, lick her all over, take a shower together, play with her nipples as she uses one of her toys...whatever you got to do.

It would be different if these were her demands everyday after your 9-5 job and you were just tired sometimes and need her to understand your need to wind down.

But on vacation, a girl has this whole mental image about how it's supposed to go down and if you want to maintain her view of you as a high value you are going to have to show her a good time.

He's right. I didn't get this when I was OP's age and it was probably the beginning of the end for my LTR at the time.

It's interesting that I had the same concerns about stamina when I was 22. I wonder if the male sexual peak is shifting to later years. Because now I'm 29 and feel I'm much more capable and much more interested in marathon sex sessions.

 

[handle]

3-4 times shouldn't be a huge deal... Have things to do so that you aren't just lying in bed all day. And mix it up a lot, make her go down on you until you're ready, etc

 

[backseatjuan]

Drink a bottle of Rom if you can, half a bottle if you can't. Then smoke some weed and nail her all night long. You won't ***.

 

[C-quenced]

fact: most women have higher sex drives than men...at least in my experience...difference is they have to feel some emotional trigger for a guy first or "like" him...

Since when? Or does it become a "fact" because some random person on the internet said so? Give me solid evidence and not a plethora of highly unreliable anecdotes.

Here is a real FACT: Women have underlying motivations for having sex and the overwhelming majority of their reasons have very little or nothing to do with pleasure for its own sake.

if u don't experience this than their IL is not that high...they are all horny as hell trust me.....i can always tell when their IL drops...by how often they initiate or hint to sex in a relationship...

I know what high IL in a woman is like and at no point in any kind of relationship (**** buddy or otherwise) are they hornier.

I do know what you mean by women needing an emotional trigger but why is it that they put out at a higher frequency and are more experimental (willing to do more sexually) in the beginning phases of a perceived relationship? After they become more comfortable there is a substantial and disturbingly noticeable dropoff.

From my experience the same women claiming they're ALWAYS horny are also the same ones complaining about guys wanting it too much and all the time.

 

[JoeMarron]

I made this more for discussion than tips although I appreciate the advice.

A woman on vacation has a fantasy built up in her mind, which includes new places, food, and phucking.

If she's with her bf and he doesn't step up to the plate and give her a good constant railing while on vacation, odds are she'll be looking to upgrade soon once she's back to daily reality.

So if you fail to get your stiffy on command, go down on her, lick her all over, take a shower together, play with her nipples as she uses one of her toys...whatever you got to do.

It would be different if these were her demands everyday after your 9-5 job and you were just tired sometimes and need her to understand your need to wind down.

But on vacation, a girl has this whole mental image about how it's supposed to go down and if you want to maintain her view of you as a high value you are going to have to show her a good time.

Interesting. I always try to vary it up as much as possible and make sure she's utterly drained by the end of the trip.

He's right. I didn't get this when I was OP's age and it was probably the beginning of the end for my LTR at the time.

It's interesting that I had the same concerns about stamina when I was 22. I wonder if the male sexual peak is shifting to later years. Because now I'm 29 and feel I'm much more capable and much more interested in marathon sex sessions.

Hmm I was thinking the opposite would happen as I got older. So you're finding that your stamina has increased from when you were younger? I'm thinking the problem is in multiple ejaculations. I feel I'm fine as far as stamina is concerned and my refractory period is pretty short. However, after busting 3 or 4 tiimes a day everyday for a few days, things start to go downhill. Disciplining myself to just 1 or 2 would probably go a long way towards solving the problem.

 

[JoeMarron]

Since when? Or does it become a "fact" because some random person on the internet said so? Give me solid evidence and not a plethora of highly unreliable anecdotes.

Here is a real FACT: Women have underlying motivations for having sex and the overwhelming majority of their reasons have very little or nothing to do with pleasure for its own sake.



I know what high IL in a woman is like and at no point in any kind of relationship (**** buddy or otherwise) are they hornier.

I do know what you mean by women needing an emotional trigger but why is it that they put out at a higher frequency and are more experimental (willing to do more sexually) in the beginning phases of a perceived relationship? After they become more comfortable there is a substantial and disturbingly noticeable dropoff.

From my experience the same women claiming they're ALWAYS horny are also the same ones complaining about guys wanting it too much and all the time.

I can't speak for relationships but in the context of vacations in my experience they'll initiate it at least an equal amount. Whatever the motivations are they'll at least act as if they're hornier. I personally don't care what the motivations are. It benefits me either way.

 

[C-quenced]

I can't speak for relationships but in the context of vacations in my experience they'll initiate it at least an equal amount. Whatever the motivations are they'll at least act as if they're hornier. I personally don't care what the motivations are. It benefits me either way.

In the context of vacation it's all about novelty.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

fact: most women have higher sex drives than men...at least in my experience...difference is they have to feel some emotional trigger for a guy first or "like" him...

if u don't experience this than their IL is not that high...they are all horny as hell trust me.....i can always tell when their IL drops...by how often they initiate or hint to sex in a relationship...

This was definitely a FACT in all my LTR's. I've experienced both extremes: Totally energized and want more and the other would TAP out from exhaustion but man once she got that power nap in...SMH.

 

[ARrocket]

haha I see it's a trend! My girlfriend went from being a virgin who told me she was waiting until marriage to the horniest person I've ever dealt with! It's great of course, but if I've already done it once or twice and I happen to be tired that day, sometimes it just doesn't happen for me and she gets all huffy

But yes, all in all a good problem to have!

 

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You're on vacation with your girl and you're pretty much stuck with her for a few days. She has a high libido/wants it all the time. She like many other women don't understand that men can't get hard on command and bang it out for multiple sessions in a day without negative repercussions. How do you guys handle situations like this?

I'd be skeptical I made her cvm the first time. Once or twice a night with a new chick, maybe 3 if she's ultra hot and I'm still pinging and can't sleep, after that she can find her own way, I'm sure she'll know where the door is. My sleeps more important than her trying to prove she's a sex crazed nympho with testosterone levels higher than my own. That's daddy issue territory and out of my jurisdiction.

 

[JoeMarron]

I'd be skeptical I made her cvm the first time. Once or twice a night with a new chick, maybe 3 if she's ultra hot and I'm still pinging and can't sleep, after that she can find her own way, I'm sure she'll know where the door is. My sleeps more important than her trying to prove she's a sex crazed nympho with testosterone levels higher than my own. That's daddy issue territory and out of my jurisdiction.

Lol..noted. I suppose its a form of putting the pvssy on a pedestal, going out of your way to satiate a high libido. It's hard not to keep indulging when mouth watering meals keep getting placed in front of you though.