"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Survey on the "sluttiness" of females nowadays

AlmostThere!

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I'm addicted to numbers and always have to put a percentage on things, know how fast something goes, the number of times something happen...

I made a survey and posted the link on craigslist asking females to complete a sex history survey. To make sure I didn't get any guys to respond, I made it mandatory to enter an email address. This allowed me to see if they have a Facebook/MySpace page and if I couldn't find one, I deleted the results.

So, I think these girls were pretty honest with their answers.


I have 112 verified responses from females.
Ages range from 18 - 45.
Average age of females that responded was 26.

Caucasian 67%
Black 25%
Hispanic 5%
Asian 3%

Average age virginity was loss: 16
Youngest was 11 (she's 45 now and White)
Oldest was 22 (she's 25 now and Asian)

Average number of sex partners: 13
11 responded to having more than 30 partners (two were 20 years old, and lost their virginity 2 years prior at 18)

Total number of times you had sex in your life...
39% had sex less than 1,000 times
27 % had sex 1000 - 3000 times
17% had sex 3000 - 6000 times
9% had sex 6,000 - 10,000 times
3% had sex more than 10,000 times


12% have sex 2 or 3 times per day
19% have sex once a day

12% didn't have sex for one year
28% didn't have sex for 6 months to a year

40% refrained from sex because they didn't have a boyfriend
11% didn't have sex because boyfriend/husband was away


OTHER INTERESTING FACTS
16% had sex at work
38% mostly have sex with guys in their social circles
33% often have sex with an ex boyfriend
27% will keep seeing guy who's see other girls if he gives her great sex
74% had sex outdoors
65% had sex in a public or semi-public place
54% had sex in a friend's bed
24% had sex with a guy from a club or bar more than once
30% had sex at a place of business
31% had sex in their parents bed
47% would have sex with a man of any nationality
26% had their neighbor complain or tell them they heard their sex acts
25% had sex with a college roommate in the room
48% had sex while someone was in the room (and they didn't know)
33% had sex while someone was in the room (and they knew)

What do you think of these numbers? It took me a while to process the data, but it's one of my hobbies.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jhcl4000

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AlmostThere! said:
I'm addicted to numbers and always have to put a percentage on things, know how fast something goes, the number of times something happen...

I made a survey and posted the link on craigslist asking females to complete a sex history survey. To make sure I didn't get any guys to respond, I made it mandatory to enter an email address. This allowed me to see if they have a Facebook/MySpace page and if I couldn't find one, I deleted the results.

So, I think these girls were pretty honest with their answers.


I have 112 verified responses from females.
Ages range from 18 - 45.
Average age of females that responded was 26.

Caucasian 67%
Black 25%
Hispanic 5%
Asian 3%

Average age virginity was loss: 16
Youngest was 11 (she's 45 now and White)
Oldest was 22 (she's 25 now and Asian)

Average number of sex partners: 13
11 responded to having more than 30 partners (two were 20 years old, and lost their virginity 2 years prior at 18)

Total number of times you had sex in your life...
39% had sex less than 1,000 times
27 % had sex 1000 - 3000 times
17% had sex 3000 - 6000 times
9% had sex 6,000 - 10,000 times
3% had sex more than 10,000 times



12% have sex 2 or 3 times per day
19% have sex once a day

12% didn't have sex for one year
28% didn't have sex for 6 months to a year

40% refrained from sex because they didn't have a boyfriend
11% didn't have sex because boyfriend/husband was away


OTHER INTERESTING FACTS
16% had sex at work
38% mostly have sex with guys in their social circles
33% often have sex with an ex boyfriend
27% will keep seeing guy who's see other girls if he gives her great sex
74% had sex outdoors
65% had sex in a public or semi-public place
54% had sex in a friend's bed
24% had sex with a guy from a club or bar more than once
30% had sex at a place of business
31% had sex in their parents bed
47% would have sex with a man of any nationality
26% had their neighbor complain or tell them they heard their sex acts
25% had sex with a college roommate in the room
48% had sex while someone was in the room (and they didn't know)
33% had sex while someone was in the room (and they knew)

What do you think of these numbers? It took me a while to process the data, but it's one of my hobbies.
Don't think this is going to help the confidence of the guys here... I'm just glad these results were from only 112 women on CRAIGSLIST, still *kinda* shocking though.
 

HeyPachuco!

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AlmostThere! said:
OTHER INTERESTING FACTS

27% will keep seeing guy who's see other girls if he gives her great sex
74% had sex outdoors
REALLY, I won't denie it but this result survey got me thinking "Bollocks" but it all adds up, kinda makes you think, ALL these threads to get LAID, when these bigots have no prob getting LAID, I think the words that come to mind is .. FVCK THIS SH!T.
 

AlmostThere!

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HeyPachuco! said:
REALLY, I won't denie it but this result survey got me thinking "Bollocks" but it all adds up, kinda makes you think, ALL these threads to get LAID, when these bigots have no prob getting LAID, I think the words that come to mind is .. FVCK THIS SH!T.
I have no idea what you just said.
 

Kal0051

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Hmm, results aren't that shocking. If anything they are downplaying their sluttiness. But then again lots of guys are brainwashed into thinking that women don't really love sex (so this should be a wake up call to those guys).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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katatonia

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AlmostThere! said:
3% had sex more than 10,000 times
That is approximately once every day for 30 years. I can see a guy going for that because we have high sex drives after all but a woman? I don't think so.

Some of these statistics don't seem accurate imo.
 

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I think that women are just as liberal with sex as men are these days. They act, talk, and treat sex like guys do.
 

AlmostThere!

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katatonia said:
That is approximately once every day for 30 years. I can see a guy going for that because we have high sex drives after all but a woman? I don't think so.

Some of these statistics don't seem accurate imo.
People sometimes have sex 10 times in a day.
 

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If you like numbers enough to do something like this, I strongly suggest learning about statistics and research methods.

Main flaw: Not random selection - you got people on one site (one that seems to attract rather odd people), and only people who CHOSE to repsond to a survey like this. Moreover, only people with facebook/myspace.

If you must waste your time with this kind of thing, go find stuff like this conducted by professional researchers (like on the GGS or something similar).

But really, why are you spending your time doing this? Use the time you spend with this stuff to go approach girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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