Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You're saying women in Portland are fatter than in the rest of the country? Why not just come out and say it. So passive aggressive. Are you turned down by a lot of women there?I presume you mean Portland, OR. They seem to be well-fed there.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That is apples and oranges. We don't know what "openly" approach means because if a woman just throws herself on you, out of the blue, like a prostitute looking for a client, then that's going to put-off allot of people from the bat. Even if someone gets approached there is no fun in shooting fish from a barrel and their standards go to what they can't easily get. If someone is not "openly" approached at all, then they are going to make it happen and play the game. Your statement should be what is your close rate if you want to get incel - or what % of rejections/closes do you get if you approach 20 women and they all have to be hb's of at least 7, no single-mom's, no cheats, not collecting welfare, not ghetto, etc.... to qualify. If it's 100% rejection then you could say that sounds incel, etc.... Get your experiment right at least.
Precisely. It is not typical for a woman to throw herself at you, whether you are good looking or not. As such there is no way people could answer in the affirmative to being "approached" regularly. The mostly do indirect **** like look at you or stand next to you. I was out and about today and I looked in a girls eyes directly and she looked right back and smiled until we passed each other. That was probably a yes but this is not a regular occurrence. I'm decent looking also.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There are a lot of places in the USA where the women are well-fed. Maybe I just put places that have skiing in a different category of comparison than others, and thus compared to anywhere in Colorado, chicks in Oregon are fat.
Well-fed is something you can use for the whole US.I presume you mean Portland, OR. They seem to be well-fed there.
