"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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survey: Half of Women Have a “Plan B” Guy If Their Relationship Goes Bad

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Unfortunately, from my experience Women just need that extra guy(s) in the wings either as a just in case option or a validation purpose for own feel good desirability. Women NEED constant attention

If her Husband/boyfriend is acting up or shes displeased by him....No worries, she can text, email, snapchat, facebook message, Instagram DM or reach out in any other app to plan B guy and she'll look to get the attention/validation/desire she wants.
One chick came onto me for that purpose once. To make her beta bux bf jealous and wanted some sex on the side.

Only thing is, I just came out of a relationship at the time and was so pathetically blue pilled.
I ended up not being able to make the move for some reason.

Does anyone think that she'll get back in touch with a guy she initially rejected due to not making the move in order to see if he manned up in the time since she last rejected him?
Or
Is the plan B or plan C guy usually someone she enjoyed sex with already?
Which is more likely?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So we are going to conclude females cheat more and not cry baby men blowing things out of proportion behind hypergamy? So the fact is females cheat more?
I'd say females cheat more. They have more opportunities to cheat. They have more options than guys. Doesn't matter to them if they have a dude they say is their bf waiting for them to call.
 

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I'd say females cheat more. They have more opportunities to cheat. They have more options than guys. Doesn't matter to them if they have a dude they say is their bf waiting for them to call.
So if thats reality, men may as well cheat even more. Monogomy dead. Relationships mean nothing. It just seems so grim.
 

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So if thats reality, men may as well cheat even more. Monogomy dead. Relationships mean nothing. It just seems so grim.
That's the trick...adopting the reality mindset.
Nobody wants to get all invested in repeat offenders (women) who can basically have their pick of many different things in society now.
Good thing I've noticed is that in this day and age, men don't dog each other if a guy isn't married anymore (like in the 80s-90s). That's how I, and many others got duped into the one woman deal.
And I see quite a lot of those self-absorbed knowledgable guys that are now divorced haha...
The guys who were like that and are still with their wives are generally poking the pillsberry doughgirl, or one that got a facial with an ugly stick.
It doesn't matter so much now what others think. When they see you having diff. girls around and always happy they'll get it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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