"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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survey: Half of Women Have a “Plan B” Guy If Their Relationship Goes Bad

BondJamesBond424

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Unfortunately, from my experience Women just need that extra guy(s) in the wings either as a just in case option or a validation purpose for own feel good desirability. Women NEED constant attention

If her Husband/boyfriend is acting up or shes displeased by him....No worries, she can text, email, snapchat, facebook message, Instagram DM or reach out in any other app to plan B guy and she'll look to get the attention/validation/desire she wants.
One chick came onto me for that purpose once. To make her beta bux bf jealous and wanted some sex on the side.

Only thing is, I just came out of a relationship at the time and was so pathetically blue pilled.
I ended up not being able to make the move for some reason.

Does anyone think that she'll get back in touch with a guy she initially rejected due to not making the move in order to see if he manned up in the time since she last rejected him?
Or
Is the plan B or plan C guy usually someone she enjoyed sex with already?
Which is more likely?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BondJamesBond424

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So we are going to conclude females cheat more and not cry baby men blowing things out of proportion behind hypergamy? So the fact is females cheat more?
I'd say females cheat more. They have more opportunities to cheat. They have more options than guys. Doesn't matter to them if they have a dude they say is their bf waiting for them to call.
 

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I'd say females cheat more. They have more opportunities to cheat. They have more options than guys. Doesn't matter to them if they have a dude they say is their bf waiting for them to call.
So if thats reality, men may as well cheat even more. Monogomy dead. Relationships mean nothing. It just seems so grim.
 

glass half full

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So if thats reality, men may as well cheat even more. Monogomy dead. Relationships mean nothing. It just seems so grim.
That's the trick...adopting the reality mindset.
Nobody wants to get all invested in repeat offenders (women) who can basically have their pick of many different things in society now.
Good thing I've noticed is that in this day and age, men don't dog each other if a guy isn't married anymore (like in the 80s-90s). That's how I, and many others got duped into the one woman deal.
And I see quite a lot of those self-absorbed knowledgable guys that are now divorced haha...
The guys who were like that and are still with their wives are generally poking the pillsberry doughgirl, or one that got a facial with an ugly stick.
It doesn't matter so much now what others think. When they see you having diff. girls around and always happy they'll get it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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