surprising success last night.. now stumped what to do?

[pete101]

met this HB yesterday from Facebook and it went surprisingly well to my surprise.. i was not exactly on form game wise yet none of that seemed to matter as she was so physically attracted to me she was kino'ing me from the offset..

given my bad run of 20 dates that rejection has really taken a toll on me psychologically and i almost felt as if i made a wrong move i could ruin it.. it was almost uncomfortable that she seemed into me as i usually have to work a lot harder or usually when my game was this bad i'd lose her.

anyway i felt nervous and didn't attempt a kiss close but kissed her neck instead and could have followed on with a kiss close but chickened out.. (i felt really uncomfortable and nervous, i put it down to just not being on form)

she suddenly announced that she was going home straight after much kino between us, i took this to be a bad sign like she changed her mind and was interested and suddenly wasn't.. we proceeded to go outside where she smoked her cigarette then i took her home.

we walked hand in hand to my car so there was no misconstruing things weren't ok but it seemed like we both had nothing to say to each other and the silence was uncomfortable. even on the way home she didn't have much to say.. this awkward silence makes me feel very uncomfortable as if like she's lost interest.

when i took her back she told me to let her off somewhere near her place but i insisted on taking back to her doorstep.. and she kept saying it was fine and i kept insisting (i realise now that might have looked a bit creepy like why am i insisting so much?)

anyway when i finally got her to her doorstep she'd already taken her seatbelt off before i'd even park up.. then proceeded to kiss me on the cheek goodbye and said maybe she'd see me tomorrow (i.e. today) we both were intending to go to the same park today with friends prior to us even meeting so we might see each other.. i really should have told her to call me to see if i was going as i didn't want to look desperate calling the very next day to check if she was going to be there..

as she got out the car i said 'so u going to give me a good night kiss..? ' she proceeds to blow me a kiss then walks away.

so now im stuck thinking what to do.. is the likelihood my insistence of driving her to her doorstep a very bad move?

i just wanted to know for sure that she'd be safe but also mainly cos i'd try a 2nd kiss close attempt..

when a girl is physically really into you and attracted to your ok-moderate game do you have a lot of room for error for relapsing into doing major AFC things like i did?

 

[pete101]

yeah that sounds about right about her wanting out..

damn. not sure exactly where it went wrong, i just put it down to inconsistency with my game, i did well with the last one last week.

im kinda just hoping that it's cos she didn't want to look easy so trying best to avoiding a kiss.. i just feel like im coming across too desperate and anxious.

cos she asked me what time i was going to the park the next day and i couldn't give her a definite time cos i waiting to see what my friends were saying and that they were unreliable but cos i sounded nervous while saying it sounded like i was hiding something when really i wasn't.. lol

really i should have told her to call me and i'd let her know which i didn't make clear, then at least i'd know whether my anxiety is founded or not.

not impressed with my performance yesterday, i don't like being in situations where it's dangled in front of me then taken away.. i guess im more uncomfortable with it going well than i am with it going badly since i'm so used to that after 20 failed dates.. :-s

if i have given off the impression of being too keen i guess waiting a couple extra days before i call her should help alleviate some of the errors i made yesterday?

 

[WC2]

Holding hands? Girl you just met on facebook?

Come on!

I don't even hold hands with women who I've been seeing for a few weeks constantly. Hell, I hated to hold hands with my ex and only did it on special occasions where she earned it.

Insisting to drop her off right on her doorstep?

All these things just walk you right into AFC/friend territory.

You are now her friend. She can rely on you for hand holding and rides.

Have you read the bible?

 

[slickaz]

im sorry dude...you know what im going to say i think.lol

but water of your back bru, just let it slide..dont worry too much about it. but NEXT time dont feel so uncomfy...before you go out, listen to some of your favourite upbeat music...check out the news or smtn, whatever just to keep as a back up line INACASE things get a bit too quite..

you'll have a continuing conversation with no major gaps and hiccups in the middle.. my experience, the more topics you bring up of interest to her, the more she talks the less you talk and the more she loves it.

dont hesitate for a kiss close if shes kino-n you that much. maybe play a game that ends in a kiss..i did once..it was fun and she lost so she owed me a kiss and i made it the best damn kiss she ever had..
i was running out of stuff to say to her as we talked so much over a long dinner.
so i took her to a japanese dessert spot.
I lived i japan for a while for work so i know alittle bit about their desserts.

on our way there i was teasing here and spoke about how good this place was and they use mysterious ingredients! kinda acted it out too..she laughed and said she can tell exactly coz she comes from a family of chefs.

i said ok ill bet you..ill order it you cant know what im ordering, you close your eyes and ill feed you dessert..if you win you get whatever you want..if i win i get to taste dessert of your lips..<keep in mind i was sh1ttin bricks right after i said this, but i said it really without thinking about it> she looked at me funny, then blushing said "sure!ill play it"
got there i ordered went back to the seat and sat right next to her not across. the desserts came, she closed her eyes and opened her lips..i kissed her...lol..she didnt stop me, infact she held onto me didnt let go..anyway i fed her the dessert, she couldnt guess right..so i was gonna kiss her anyway..lol.

when i dropped her home i didnt want to make out with her coz thatd just give it all away in one night..i kissed her..with my best moves and when i pulled away, she gasped n said smtn like "best kiss ive ever had..can you stay?".."No, you gotta wait for the next date for more "

good luck dude..dont doubt your game..remember if you can hide it, she cant tell.

 

[pete101]

im sorry dude...you know what im going to say i think.lol

but water of your back bru, just let it slide..dont worry too much about it. but NEXT time dont feel so uncomfy...before you go out, listen to some of your favourite upbeat music...check out the news or smtn, whatever just to keep as a back up line INACASE things get a bit too quite..

you'll have a continuing conversation with no major gaps and hiccups in the middle.. my experience, the more topics you bring up of interest to her, the more she talks the less you talk and the more she loves it.

dont hesitate for a kiss close if shes kino-n you that much. maybe play a game that ends in a kiss..i did once..it was fun and she lost so she owed me a kiss and i made it the best damn kiss she ever had..
i was running out of stuff to say to her as we talked so much over a long dinner.
so i took her to a japanese dessert spot.
I lived i japan for a while for work so i know alittle bit about their desserts.

on our way there i was teasing here and spoke about how good this place was and they use mysterious ingredients! kinda acted it out too..she laughed and said she can tell exactly coz she comes from a family of chefs.

i said ok ill bet you..ill order it you cant know what im ordering, you close your eyes and ill feed you dessert..if you win you get whatever you want..if i win i get to taste dessert of your lips..<keep in mind i was sh1ttin bricks right after i said this, but i said it really without thinking about it> she looked at me funny, then blushing said "sure!ill play it"
got there i ordered went back to the seat and sat right next to her not across. the desserts came, she closed her eyes and opened her lips..i kissed her...lol..she didnt stop me, infact she held onto me didnt let go..anyway i fed her the dessert, she couldnt guess right..so i was gonna kiss her anyway..lol.

when i dropped her home i didnt want to make out with her coz thatd just give it all away in one night..i kissed her..with my best moves and when i pulled away, she gasped n said smtn like "best kiss ive ever had..can you stay?".."No, you gotta wait for the next date for more "

good luck dude..dont doubt your game..remember if you can hide it, she cant tell.

the thing is the interest level was still there when i called today but i f'd up cos i got so worked up about losing her after she showed such a high interest level that made me nervous.

now i don't know when to call again?