"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surgery to stop sweating?

onthepath

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Hi,

I'm considering getting surgery to stop sweating under my armpits and feet, but am concerned about possible side effects.

Does anyone know about the cons for this?

I've exhausted what I think are all possiblities -I've used all sorts of products (incl Driclor) and none work. my confidence is gradually getting worse and worse, and I see myself shrinking away from any social situation.

So, possible cons please.

Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I-tallionStallion

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If its the smell that is bothering you look into deodrant crystals i think they are called. Supposedly they are really cheap and keep you from smelling where ever you put it.

Surgery for sweating sounds extreme...are you a big guy? Maybe losing weight would help or drinking cold water to keep your body refreshed
 

kickureface

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i have the same problem. i would be doin nothing like eating or typing and shake someones hands, wet.
or be on flip flops for a long time, wet flip flops. lol.
 

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i've tried antiperspirents, i've tried the crystal deoderants, and they dont work effectively for me- they reduce the problem a little, but my paranoia and constant thinking and worrying about it is driving me nuts
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I believe he's referring to chronic hyperhydrosis... I get it in my hands, especially when adrenaline is going. I barely notice it anymore because I treat it effectively. Every night, before bed, I wipe my hands with antiperspirant. The whole next day my hands are fine.

Perhaps take a stick of antiperspirant(do not confuse with deodorant), and wipe the affected area before bed. Monitor the results the next day.

If that doesn't work then sure, consider surgery. Just know that surgery to alter the nervous system is very dangerous and not to be taken lightly.
 

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I've heard this can cause problems for some people. CBC or BBC Report I think.

Do plenty of research first. Lots of problems & side effects.
 

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onthepath said:
i've tried antiperspirents, i've tried the crystal deoderants, and they dont work effectively for me- they reduce the problem a little, but my paranoia and constant thinking and worrying about it is driving me nuts
If it's your mind that's causing you to sweat, then forget the surgery and get your thought process fixed. Cognitive therapy would do you wonders. Look into it. Your thought process is all fvcked up. You need to learn how to look on the bright side of things, and it need to be reprogrammed at your subconscious.

It will do wonders for you and your life. You will soar. Trust me!!!
 

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never go under the knife unless it's absolutely fn necessary. :trouble:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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People with hyperhidrosis can suffer from excessive sweating under ANY conditions. It may have nothing to do with how you feel emotionally or even your body temperature. The sweating is caused by overactive sweat glands that you have no control over.. it sucks!

For sweaty hands, armpits, and feet there is prescription antiperspirant called "Drysol" thats works very well for some people. You apply the medicine at night just before you go to sleep. After several treatments, sweating should cease for up to a few weeks!

I have been using this solution for several years but am now considering surgery. The surgery is called "Endoscopic thoracic sympathectomy" and involves clamping the nerve connected to overactive sweat glands. The good thing about the surgery is that it is reversible. The clamp on the nerve can be removed. Side effects most often include recompensatory sweating which means that sweat may be rerouted to another part of the body. However, recompensatory sweating is just a possibility. If the operation is 100% successful, you may be lucky enough to not have any recompensatory sweating and you will sweat regularly like someone without hyperhidrosis.
 
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