"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Surely they can't believe this

btownbuck2012

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I've been doing a-lot of reading on the rational male blog website lately. What a god send that place is.

Anyways, it's opened my eyes quite a bit to the ways women try to balance the playing field as they get older, you know because their peak SMV is between the ages of 22-24. Whereas a man doesn't peak until later on.

I saw this quote on facebook

"I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model, but I'm ME. I eat food, have curves, love my ...PJ's, and will go without make up. I'm random and crazy, and I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, love me or not, It won't change ME!!! Proud 2b me"

To me it's really brazen. I mean this attitude is so arrogantly and blissfully stupid it has my head spinning. Especially this "i'm random and crazy" junk. What the hell does that even mean? It's almost like a get out of jail free card for acting like a little child. I say this with all due respect to women, but the majority of them do in fact act like little kids.

I had a friend the other day who asked me if I wanted to go "sarge" at the mall and I really wasn't feeling it. So I told him. I just can't get motivated anymore to go out and meet girls.

Am I wrong to feel this way? I really don't think so. What kind of sane minded guy would put up with this attitude you're seeing in the above quote. I've found pursuing a career in the federal government far more rewarding than anything I've ever done with a girl, even sexually. I spent this past summer in Washington, DC and it was the greatest experience of my life. It has opened up interview opportunities for me in the DC and Baltimore area and again, That is what's truly rewarding to me. I mean it gives me peace and content. Something I never got while chasing girls.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is this, I really don't see anything wrong with refusing to entertain, even for a second, the attitude in that quote above. I mean it's absolutely ridiculous. However, I know there are always going to be guys who do support it and put up with it. That's why the advice given on this website to "focus on yourself" is so VITALLY important. You can't stop other dudes from ruining their lives, but you can control what you do. Be smart with women. Don't get caught up in this trap.

I'd rather make some serious $ doing something I love and f-ck a HB9.5 hooker than to fool around with these mediocre "won't change me, proud 2b me'' women. I mean jesus christ...surely some of these women must realize how stupid they sound?

THOUGHTS?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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Girls that dont get themselves accountable of their failures/lacks and instead rationalize by considering them point of strenght and shaming those who disagree is nothing new.

"Real women have curves" therefore u dont love women if you dont love fat girls...said the fat girl.

"An adult man who goes to younger girls is insecure of his manliness" , enough said...said the old woman.

"You cant deal with strong independat women" you're insecure and wek if you dont marry an old land whale once she is done with the c0ck carousel etc

and the best one:

"if you cant take my at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"
This lines comes from girls whos best is a ******* once in a while and their worst is everything else 24/7.

So no Op, sometime when you dont need validation anymore and your sex drive is under control, you can do without women pretty well.
The no bvllsh1t tolerance time happens to every man once in a while.
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
"I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model, but I'm ME. I eat food, have curves, love my ...PJ's, and will go without make up. I'm random and crazy, and I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, love me or not, It won't change ME!!! Proud 2b me"



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= Im a lazy slob and nowadays, I dont have to look after myself or my appearance as some desperate fag white knight will come knocking at my door....and she is right on that!

you attitude is ok op, dont lose it
 

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It's fantastically amazing how the women who don't care find a way to justify it. And this works because so many AFCs just put up with it because they are afraid to loose the girl. They never asked themselves "but what am I really loosing?"

At this point I am convinced that most of them take after their mothers and how they were raised by them. Roses cannot be bred from garlic cloves.
 

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I think that such an attitude is ok, IF the other parts are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Burroughs

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btownbuck2012 said:
To me it's really brazen. I mean this attitude is so arrogantly and blissfully stupid it has my head spinning. Especially this "i'm random and crazy" junk. What the hell does that even mean? It's almost like a get out of jail free card for acting like a little child. I say this with all due respect to women, but the majority of them do in fact act like little kids.

I had a friend the other day who asked me if I wanted to go "sarge" at the mall and I really wasn't feeling it. So I told him. I just can't get motivated anymore to go out and meet girls.

Am I wrong to feel this way? I really don't think so. What kind of sane minded guy would put up with this attitude you're seeing in the above quote.
Fatties and uggos are arrogant because they can be....for every hb 4 uggo there is a desperate 7hb male looking to wife them up

fatties know this so they act accordingly....women have a get out of jail card and it is the government...once a woman marries her financial future is secure...her husband is her wage slave for 20+ years even if she cheats and initiates the divorce.

all women have to do is dangle the poontang and all the PUA and 'game theory' men come out of the woodwork lol

until men abandon 'game theory' when it comes to women...women will continue to hold the upper hand.

no btownbuck women will never realize how stupid they sound because women have no comprehension of cause and effect....that is why they are only fit to live their lives as the property of men....our society has forgotten this and it is one of the main reasons we are decaying.
 
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