She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Unproven pseudo-science. That's just another scapegoat for those who are already afraid to approach women to use to shift the blame away from their cowardice.MIKED777 said:Anytime you jerk off you lessen your desire to approach women.
It makes me feel relaxed or tired for about 5 minutes after doing it. I don't know about everyone else here, but I'm pretty sure that missing 5 minutes worth of approaching isn't going to kill your game that much.MIKED777 said:Also it makes you feel tired .
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Silverback82 said:I can't fall asleep ...
I agree but that has nothing to do with whacking off too muchtmpgstx said:guys don't approach because they are wusses not because they beat off too much
Not true at all. Real men FEAR rejection because they take everythig they do with some seriousness. Think about it. A guy who is the best at everything he does is going to make sound choices and reduce rejection.
Some of you will say that real men don't fear anything. I don't mean fear of the girl, but the fear it will have on your ego and hard you'll be on YOU because of your choice and possiibly appeasing her ego at your expense with no trade off.
Only flaming idiots approach girls by the hundreds.. Work on improving yourself and become the prize. Let women seek YOU out and make it easy for YOU to date them.
Look for some good non-verbal signs and then approach. Girls know how to give off these signs early on and are masters at it. Become masters at reading these signs and reduce your rejection expotentially.
And yes, there guys who fear girls too, but then they're usually shy and very introverted with everyone.