So met this girl last week. Since then she's been texting me most days. She's ok looking, decent body. There's a couple of red flags that I've noticed but I just want her for practice and to lose my virginity. I think I have this since she's reacting so positively, even when I insinuated that she'll be sucking my ****. But any advice would be appreciated.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Supposed to be meeting up with this girl at her place tomorrow to watch a movie
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
good luck and keep us updated. Try not to think about the event b4 hand and try to not be approval seeking when talking to her.
Brush off any awkward silences and dont see this as you gamin her if not she will mirror you and respond likewise.
Talk to her about mundane everyday stuff (you wont run out of stuff to say if u focus the convo on her and on current events and tv shows and events happening around your neighbour hood e.t.c) and build on what she says and try to be fun and imaginative when talkin. Look for a common denominaor in your convo with her and try not to talk for too long.
To get the kiss, tell her to close her eyes and to stretch out her hands cos you have a surprise, then tickle her. Then go in for the kiss depending on how she responds. Be as natural as possible and dont pressure yourself. You can do this.....
Brush off any awkward silences and dont see this as you gamin her if not she will mirror you and respond likewise.
Talk to her about mundane everyday stuff (you wont run out of stuff to say if u focus the convo on her and on current events and tv shows and events happening around your neighbour hood e.t.c) and build on what she says and try to be fun and imaginative when talkin. Look for a common denominaor in your convo with her and try not to talk for too long.
To get the kiss, tell her to close her eyes and to stretch out her hands cos you have a surprise, then tickle her. Then go in for the kiss depending on how she responds. Be as natural as possible and dont pressure yourself. You can do this.....
I think I'm good with how to kiss her. I've kissed many girls dude, so no problem on how to do that (90% is just having balls anyways). I don't really think we'll be having lots of conversation, we're watching a movie in her dorm room (we'll probably talk about movies I assume).YAboi said:good luck and keep us updated. Try not to think about the event b4 hand and try to not be approval seeking when talking to her.
Brush off any awkward silences and dont see this as you gamin her if not she will mirror you and respond likewise.
Talk to her about mundane everyday stuff (you wont run out of stuff to say if u focus the convo on her and on current events and tv shows and events happening around your neighbour hood e.t.c) and build on what she says and try to be fun and imaginative when talkin. Look for a common denominaor in your convo with her and try not to talk for too long.
To get the kiss, tell her to close her eyes and to stretch out her hands cos you have a surprise, then tickle her. Then go in for the kiss depending on how she responds. Be as natural as possible and dont pressure yourself. You can do this.....
Honestly my plan is to meet up with her, start kissing her a bit when we get to her room, throw a movie on, and escalate.
So tonight was a semi success (not gonna complain too much). Heading over to her place this afternoon, we threw a movie on. Didn't watch too much of it.
At first we chatted, I pulled her closer to me and kissed her. We made out for the longest time. Tried to take her shirt off, she won't let me and told me I'm not getting her shirt off.
We make out a while longer, I tease her a little. Eventually went for the shirt again, this time no problem. Nice tits. We continue to fool around, and I slide my hands down to her pants. She pulls my hands away, and tells me that that's going too far.
We continue to make out while checking out the movie once in a while. She gives me a *******, does a decent job. I go for her pants again and no problem this time (though she won't let me take off her panties). I finger her anyway, get her off.
I tell her I'm getting a condom, no problem. I put it on and take her panties off. Tried to **** her but it wasn't happening, combination I couldn't get hard enough and she's tight as ****. We tried for a bit, but gave up after a while.
Still was a fun night.
At first we chatted, I pulled her closer to me and kissed her. We made out for the longest time. Tried to take her shirt off, she won't let me and told me I'm not getting her shirt off.
We make out a while longer, I tease her a little. Eventually went for the shirt again, this time no problem. Nice tits. We continue to fool around, and I slide my hands down to her pants. She pulls my hands away, and tells me that that's going too far.
We continue to make out while checking out the movie once in a while. She gives me a *******, does a decent job. I go for her pants again and no problem this time (though she won't let me take off her panties). I finger her anyway, get her off.
I tell her I'm getting a condom, no problem. I put it on and take her panties off. Tried to **** her but it wasn't happening, combination I couldn't get hard enough and she's tight as ****. We tried for a bit, but gave up after a while.
Still was a fun night.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I must say, that night went pretty well..
I am going for a sleepover at a Hb9, this girl is a mystery, i cannot figure her out! ..
But i guess i will be like "what the hell" and just go for it.. there is no reason to hold back anyway, if she does not want to, she does not, if she wants to i will get lucky ...
So let us see what is going to happen..
I am going for a sleepover at a Hb9, this girl is a mystery, i cannot figure her out! ..
But i guess i will be like "what the hell" and just go for it.. there is no reason to hold back anyway, if she does not want to, she does not, if she wants to i will get lucky ...
So let us see what is going to happen..