So met this girl last week. Since then she's been texting me most days. She's ok looking, decent body. There's a couple of red flags that I've noticed but I just want her for practice and to lose my virginity. I think I have this since she's reacting so positively, even when I insinuated that she'll be sucking my ****. But any advice would be appreciated.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Supposed to be meeting up with this girl at her place tomorrow to watch a movie
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
good luck and keep us updated. Try not to think about the event b4 hand and try to not be approval seeking when talking to her.
Brush off any awkward silences and dont see this as you gamin her if not she will mirror you and respond likewise.
Talk to her about mundane everyday stuff (you wont run out of stuff to say if u focus the convo on her and on current events and tv shows and events happening around your neighbour hood e.t.c) and build on what she says and try to be fun and imaginative when talkin. Look for a common denominaor in your convo with her and try not to talk for too long.
To get the kiss, tell her to close her eyes and to stretch out her hands cos you have a surprise, then tickle her. Then go in for the kiss depending on how she responds. Be as natural as possible and dont pressure yourself. You can do this.....
Brush off any awkward silences and dont see this as you gamin her if not she will mirror you and respond likewise.
Talk to her about mundane everyday stuff (you wont run out of stuff to say if u focus the convo on her and on current events and tv shows and events happening around your neighbour hood e.t.c) and build on what she says and try to be fun and imaginative when talkin. Look for a common denominaor in your convo with her and try not to talk for too long.
To get the kiss, tell her to close her eyes and to stretch out her hands cos you have a surprise, then tickle her. Then go in for the kiss depending on how she responds. Be as natural as possible and dont pressure yourself. You can do this.....
I think I'm good with how to kiss her. I've kissed many girls dude, so no problem on how to do that (90% is just having balls anyways). I don't really think we'll be having lots of conversation, we're watching a movie in her dorm room (we'll probably talk about movies I assume).YAboi said:good luck and keep us updated. Try not to think about the event b4 hand and try to not be approval seeking when talking to her.
Brush off any awkward silences and dont see this as you gamin her if not she will mirror you and respond likewise.
Talk to her about mundane everyday stuff (you wont run out of stuff to say if u focus the convo on her and on current events and tv shows and events happening around your neighbour hood e.t.c) and build on what she says and try to be fun and imaginative when talkin. Look for a common denominaor in your convo with her and try not to talk for too long.
To get the kiss, tell her to close her eyes and to stretch out her hands cos you have a surprise, then tickle her. Then go in for the kiss depending on how she responds. Be as natural as possible and dont pressure yourself. You can do this.....
Honestly my plan is to meet up with her, start kissing her a bit when we get to her room, throw a movie on, and escalate.
So tonight was a semi success (not gonna complain too much). Heading over to her place this afternoon, we threw a movie on. Didn't watch too much of it.
At first we chatted, I pulled her closer to me and kissed her. We made out for the longest time. Tried to take her shirt off, she won't let me and told me I'm not getting her shirt off.
We make out a while longer, I tease her a little. Eventually went for the shirt again, this time no problem. Nice tits. We continue to fool around, and I slide my hands down to her pants. She pulls my hands away, and tells me that that's going too far.
We continue to make out while checking out the movie once in a while. She gives me a *******, does a decent job. I go for her pants again and no problem this time (though she won't let me take off her panties). I finger her anyway, get her off.
I tell her I'm getting a condom, no problem. I put it on and take her panties off. Tried to **** her but it wasn't happening, combination I couldn't get hard enough and she's tight as ****. We tried for a bit, but gave up after a while.
Still was a fun night.
At first we chatted, I pulled her closer to me and kissed her. We made out for the longest time. Tried to take her shirt off, she won't let me and told me I'm not getting her shirt off.
We make out a while longer, I tease her a little. Eventually went for the shirt again, this time no problem. Nice tits. We continue to fool around, and I slide my hands down to her pants. She pulls my hands away, and tells me that that's going too far.
We continue to make out while checking out the movie once in a while. She gives me a *******, does a decent job. I go for her pants again and no problem this time (though she won't let me take off her panties). I finger her anyway, get her off.
I tell her I'm getting a condom, no problem. I put it on and take her panties off. Tried to **** her but it wasn't happening, combination I couldn't get hard enough and she's tight as ****. We tried for a bit, but gave up after a while.
Still was a fun night.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Master Don Juan
I must say, that night went pretty well..
I am going for a sleepover at a Hb9, this girl is a mystery, i cannot figure her out! ..
But i guess i will be like "what the hell" and just go for it.. there is no reason to hold back anyway, if she does not want to, she does not, if she wants to i will get lucky ...
So let us see what is going to happen..
I am going for a sleepover at a Hb9, this girl is a mystery, i cannot figure her out! ..
But i guess i will be like "what the hell" and just go for it.. there is no reason to hold back anyway, if she does not want to, she does not, if she wants to i will get lucky ...
So let us see what is going to happen..