The economics students among us know that the law of supply and demand governs all financial interactions in our world. However, this base law runs much deeper than that, in all manner of our lives.
A rare commodity has a higher price than a more common one
This is basically what this all boils down to. Now, I shall discuss value:
price is determined by perceived value, not actual value. perceived value is affected mostly by the rarity of a commodity, and so something is worth more simply because there is less of it!
Consider this law as it applies to dating: 51% of the world's population is women!
What does this mean?
The average man can potentially command a higher price than the average woman!
Let yourself absorb that for a second. I am sure that there have been times in your life when you have felt less worthwhile than a woman (perhaps even a woman of equal attractiveness as you). This feeling is OBVIOUSLY at least somewhat wrong, given the above!
YOU ARE BORN WITH A HEAD START, BY VIRTUE OF BEING BORN A MAN!
But thats not all! The situation gets even better for you. You can further and drastically raise your value (and therefore your price) above other males by spending a little time on yourself. Not just physically, but by practicing techniques of seduction.
When you do not approach, you remove yourself from the marketplace
By not approaching or making any kinds of sexual advances, you deny any potential buyers (women) the chance to even bid for you! You immediately destroy your value since a commodity (not matter how rare or sought after) cannot be bought if it is not for sale!
Do you now see how self-defeating fear of approaching is? The above is perfectly true and beyond question. It is definitely true that 51% of the world is female, and so the rest is true that follows from this fact.
YOU ARE VALUABLE!
I hope you feel a little more inspired now.
A rare commodity has a higher price than a more common one
This is basically what this all boils down to. Now, I shall discuss value:
price is determined by perceived value, not actual value. perceived value is affected mostly by the rarity of a commodity, and so something is worth more simply because there is less of it!
Consider this law as it applies to dating: 51% of the world's population is women!
What does this mean?
The average man can potentially command a higher price than the average woman!
Let yourself absorb that for a second. I am sure that there have been times in your life when you have felt less worthwhile than a woman (perhaps even a woman of equal attractiveness as you). This feeling is OBVIOUSLY at least somewhat wrong, given the above!
YOU ARE BORN WITH A HEAD START, BY VIRTUE OF BEING BORN A MAN!
But thats not all! The situation gets even better for you. You can further and drastically raise your value (and therefore your price) above other males by spending a little time on yourself. Not just physically, but by practicing techniques of seduction.
When you do not approach, you remove yourself from the marketplace
By not approaching or making any kinds of sexual advances, you deny any potential buyers (women) the chance to even bid for you! You immediately destroy your value since a commodity (not matter how rare or sought after) cannot be bought if it is not for sale!
Do you now see how self-defeating fear of approaching is? The above is perfectly true and beyond question. It is definitely true that 51% of the world is female, and so the rest is true that follows from this fact.
YOU ARE VALUABLE!
I hope you feel a little more inspired now.