Sorry to get off topic, but I did something meat-headed at a grocery store once. This happened about two years ago, so I would never end a situation like this again without getting the digits.
I was there in the store around 10 p.m. A fairly hot, well-dressed girl just walked in and was hovering around the produce section. I had just been through a bad relationship, so I wasn't ready to start a new one right away. I was doing this program in which I forced myself to walk up to and talk to one girl a day.
So, I strolled over and said, "Excuse me, but you look like you know what you're doing. How do I pick good tomatoes?" She asked what I wanted them for, and I told her. A big friendly conversation followed, with her doing most of the talking. She gave me lots of kino, and even told me where she lived.
Like a complete idiot, I walked away without asking for her number. She just looked at me like she was waiting for me to ask and couldn't believe that I didn't.
I remember at this phase, I think I was at my best in approaching women. Why? Because I didn't really think about it or second guess myself. I didn't think about being C & F, or neg hits, or what these women thought of me. I'd just see one and right away go up to her. I'd reach for anything to say, to ask about, or to talk about. Sometimes it was a total disaster. Sometimes, it was an incredible success.
Come to think of it, I may try this again as I 've just started dating again after a long dry spell. I'm really rusty.
