Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BadBoyCoolMan

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i am interested in learning more about what this is. i have seen several messages with info on this subject. what are some of the symptoms of this disorder?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it comes from feelings of inferiority, that are then overcompensated by acting like you are better than everyone, or superior.

Why do you ask this. What is the relationship with gaming women. If you are hinting that ****y/funny and other behaviors that are used to determine status in a social setting could be seen as an SC disorder, then I can see your concern. SC is not an attractive quality, even though you might trick some people into thinking your Alpha, you'll still be seen as an ALpha a$$hole.
 

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i was actually referring to the disorder where you think that you are BETTER THAN everyone else? morally superior even though you do the same ****. for example, i may think that a girl who ****ed 5 guys is a hoe even though i do worse **** than that. does that make sense?
 

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BadBoyCoolMan said:
i was actually referring to the disorder where you think that you are BETTER THAN everyone else? morally superior even though you do the same ****. for example, i may think that a girl who ****ed 5 guys is a hoe even though i do worse **** than that. does that make sense?
That's what I said - thinking that you're better than people. But to answer your question, we are raised to feel that women who sleep around are slvts, esp. if your dating them. Your a victim of ingrained stereo types, not SUperiority Complex.
 
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