“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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superficial teenagers and their stupid bragfests

sstype

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I dont know if the young guys here feel me on this but I cannot seem to have a good time whenever the conversation at a party or get together consists of:

-the many shots one took last week and got so wasted

-the number of shots one will take at the next party, then proceeding to explain how wasted he/she will be

-armchair connosieurs talking about all different types of beer, rum, vodka, everclear, bacardi, blah blah fycking blah and whether it is ****ty or da bomb, complete with proof numbers etc. etc...and then how they got wasted off of it.

-bragfests consisting of how much puzzy one had in the past month, how hot all of them were...when in reality they had none and if they did, it was with a warpig or plain jane.

-constant usage of the phrase "wow, what a meatfest"

-constant usage of guy:girl ratios

-constant usage of cliched dave chappelle phrases such as "Im rick james bytch" and "fyck yo couch nigga" followed by a burst of laughter for the 1000th time.

-of course, whats cooler than white guys rapping bits and pieces to a song they dont even know who is singing it.

-most repeated phrase in any given party "Im so wasted"

-Of course, nothing wraps up a bragfest more than exposing your ordeals with the cops. Everyone loves hearing how you supposedly were doing 100 in a 55mph two lane road while driving backwards. Way to impress the girls too speed demon.




Is this it???? All these years and this is all we strive for?? Is this the future of our society?? Not to sound corny, but whatever happened to creativity? Whatever happened to building ourselves, why are we doing the opposite? So we can be cool? no offense, but I honestly think parties and similar get togethers are just an example of the vanity and complacency of our society.

Sure its cool to do it once in a while, but you dont have to base your entire fycking college life around alcohol and partying.

What do you guys think??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree. Sometimes i feel like people who brag and try to be cool are everywhere. This ho i know talks about how cool the OC is and how she didnt get high off a blunt. It seems like everyone has to be the coolest kid even though none of it will matter in 5 seconds. Ill admit the whole drinking scene is fun and **** but after a while it gets pretty redundant. Pepole are retarded...people who use the phrase "i like to party" should be shot.
 

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oh yeah, and the whole fycking marijuana thing....

you just gotta admire those guys and girls that seem to remember every blunt, joint, bong, etc... they smoked, yet they always forget valuable life skills the moment they leave school or work.
 

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Peer pressure and the "Pleasure Principle" - two of the most powerful motivators the human animal is subject to.

Creativity and self-improvement require ignoring both of them.
 

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I can't stand people bragging about how many brain cells they killed.....to me it's like: good for you buddy, I'm really impressed.
:rolleyes:

Sadly, they are bragging about it because they don't have any real accomplishments and need to hang on to something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sometimes i really feel out of place at these parties. I am sociable and friendly to talk to, but jesus, its so fycking gay when guys start spewing the same garbage they said last week, and the week before.
 

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Originally posted by sstype
sometimes i really feel out of place at these parties. I am sociable and friendly to talk to, but jesus, its so fycking gay when guys start spewing the same garbage they said last week, and the week before.
Stay away from these types of losers. They're hanging on to stupid sh1t like how much weed they had last week, or how many shots they had the other day because they're going nowhere in life. They're only going to bring you down and run you short of your potential.
 

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im gonna bump this up once to get some final thoughts before i let this post slide into oblivion
 

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Maybe you are just growing up. Drunk people bore me - no more bars and clubs for me. And the people who talk the most are usually trying to cover up their own insecurities. You could just be old for your age - maybe make some older friends.
 

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They're trying to have conversations. I wonder what you say during a party?

"Yo wassup man"

"Yeah what you think of that girl"

If you want better conversation, you have to better hang with different types.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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