"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Super thin! Help

Protonoto

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Hi Guys. I was hoping to get some advice. I've always been thin my whole life. It doesn't matter if I don't do any exercise, sit on my arse and eat junk I still don't get fat. I was considering joining a gym and trying to gain some muscle but I've got a feeling it'll be really hard to gain weight. Does anyone have any idea where I should start? I don't want to become a big buff guy, just some what more defined.

I'm:

19 Years old
120 lbs
5ft 8

Any help is appreciate.

P.S tell me if I've done this wrong. I don't want to get flamed!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quiksilver

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Lift some weights and eat. If after a few weeks you still aren't gaining, eat more. If somehow you still aren't gaining weight, eat more still.
 

yungahdubz

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Join the gym, do a routine like Stronglifts 5x5 or Ripptoe, something that consists of compounds lift (exercises that use many muscles).

Eat like a beast, some people suggest drinking a gallon of milk a day but you WILL gain quite a bit of fat. Cut down the amount of milk you drink if you want to keep fat gain to a minimum.

Lots of protein and carbs.

You'll need around 2400 cals a day to gain weight, how many cals a day do you eat atm?

How much do you want to weigh?
 

Protonoto

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I'm not entirely sure how much I eat a day. Being small I find it really hard to eat alot. I'm going to estimate just under 2000 calories.

I'd like to weigh about 140 - 150lbs I guess! So I just don't look so thin.
 

Quagmire911

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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