"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Super-Slow Training

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Alright lately Ive been hearing a lot on the "Super-Slow Training" method in the news, which is basically when you lift instead of normally taking 4-6 seconds to complete you take 14-16.

Ive heard that there are fantastic gains to be made here, but it just doesnt make sense to me that this would produce any noticable benefits. Also I tend not to believe too much I see on TV.

Anyone tried this and found results?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most likely, the only gains you will be making is muscle mass gain. You will get bigger, but not much stronger. It depends on what you are looking for. To get bigger, super-slow may be the way to go. To make strength gains, explosive lifting is the way to go.
 

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Yeah, you definitely wont get much strength out of it. You won't activate any fast-twitch fibers either, and those are larger than slow-twitch.
 

misunderstood??

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No harm in giving it a shot, I was planning on trying it out for about 3 months in a lil' whlie to see how it goes. Experiment with this stuff and then you'll know how it works for you.
 

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe
Yeah, you definitely wont get much strength out of it. You won't activate any fast-twitch fibers either, and those are larger than slow-twitch.
wat he said
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Super slow training was popularised a good 10 years ago if memory serves me right. It was a passing fad then and no doubt will be the same again.
 

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Hell, you can incorporate anything you want into your workouts, just keep them based on the tried and true principles.
 
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That super-slow training sounds like a great way to mix up your routine. I know that if I don't mix it up once in a while, I stop gaining as much. Try it for a day or two and then go back to explosive and see if that doesn't work wonders for you.

Good Luck
 
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