"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Super good book(s) on gettin rid of low self esteem and building confidence?

youngmack

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Oh guys know any books that excellent for killing low self esteem and building confidence.i got low confidence and self esteem and its fuccin me up in alot of aspects in my life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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-Gripz-

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The only person in control of your self esteem is you only. Learn to respect yourself and care about yourself; if you don't have a hobby get one. If you are on hard times right now, know that things will get better. Remember you are in control of your own thoughts.
 

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My main advice to you is this: work out. If you are buff chicks will come on to you much easier and they will boost your confidence to make you a self-propelling chick-magnet.

I quit working out due to an injury, got a little depressed this summer and started reading Psychocybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. It's the best one I've ever come across though. Never read any of Tony Robbins' stuff, but Maltz is pretty cool to read. It's about how he would fix up people's external issues through plastic surgery, but some people remained the same scrooges they were before surgery because their scars were psychological and not physical.
 
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