"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Super Busy and Shy

Kamikazi1231

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Okay lads so here's my predicament. My GF of 5 months happens to be one of the girls uncomfortable with public displays of affection. Now this hasn't been a problem cause I always got to see her on the weekends. But for the next two months she is busy with orchestra, fencing, and college stuff. So basically I don't get to see her on the weekends either now. I don't want to next her. I figure call up some of the guys for a while. Any other advice? Maybe small things I could do with her? Anything is welcome.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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donjuanjovi

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So you don't get to see her at all, or just during week nights? Are you looking for date ideas you can do on weeknights? I don't really understand what you're asking here. I'm pretty slow so help me out.
 

dude156

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depends on if you see her during the week nights as donjuanjovi said, is she ever the first who wants to hang out with you or are you always asking her when she is free. If you think your the only one doing the work here then next her
 
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