"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kamikazi1231

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Okay lads so here's my predicament. My GF of 5 months happens to be one of the girls uncomfortable with public displays of affection. Now this hasn't been a problem cause I always got to see her on the weekends. But for the next two months she is busy with orchestra, fencing, and college stuff. So basically I don't get to see her on the weekends either now. I don't want to next her. I figure call up some of the guys for a while. Any other advice? Maybe small things I could do with her? Anything is welcome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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donjuanjovi

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So you don't get to see her at all, or just during week nights? Are you looking for date ideas you can do on weeknights? I don't really understand what you're asking here. I'm pretty slow so help me out.
 

dude156

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depends on if you see her during the week nights as donjuanjovi said, is she ever the first who wants to hang out with you or are you always asking her when she is free. If you think your the only one doing the work here then next her
 
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