"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sup fellas...Really need some good advice...

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Basically, there is this female that works around where I work. I see her from time to time because I assume she gets off work the same time I do, so every now and then I'll see her waiting on the train.

Anyway, one day I was out getting some food with some coworkers. I absolutely almost went crazy because we walked past the store and she was at the checkout. Anyway, when she came out I let her walk by but...I said **** that...and I ran up to her and attempted to holla. I didn't get far at off. Shot down quick as hell.

Let me tell you about this female. She's about 40, with the fliest 19 year old body that you ever would see in your life. Beauty from head to toe. Ass that would put Buffy to shame. In short her body is some of the most serious works of art that I ever seen in my life.

Ok...so now...a few weeks pass and I haven't seen her, not that I be checking for her like that...but I have noticed that I haven't seen her catching the train or nothing. Anyway...so fast forward to present day. I pass her on the side walk...she's going in the opposite direction as me, and I know she's going to catch the train. I want to turn around so bad, but I don't because I don't wanna be on no stalker ****. But I do haul ass to where I'm going and handle my business and get my ass back to the subway station to see if she's there and maybe I could at least say sup to her.

I make it back and she's there way at the end of the platform. So I walk slowly down(hoping the train doesn't come before I get there). Anyway I sit down on the bench about 4 spots down from her. I look over at her casually, then look back down. Then I hop up to go look to see if the train is coming. As I hop up she gets up and walks down about 25 feet from me.

So I know she doesn't want to be bothered...at least by me. And I wonder if I'm creeping her out. I highly doubt it...because how could I? I never even did nothing to her. Haven't seen this lady in weeks. Anyway train comes, and she hops on it.

Next station we get off. She's at the end of the platform so I walk down careful not to look her way or anything. I just casually walked down(because I know if you want to get to know someone, you have to atleast be in their space....know what I mean?). So I'm looking to the OTHER side of the platform that shes standing on, kinda with my back facing her. So she before I could even look at her for 2 seconds she's walked down to where I just left. So I'm a little disappointed now. But it's cool and I'm a patient guy.

I know this lady has a man. She's older, and probably married. A woman that fine has GOT TO BE MARRIED! But I want to at least find out from her if she is. No I didn't get to check for a ring yet. That's the only reason I know that she could be acting the way she is, because I really don't see how I could be freaking her out. Like I said....I ain't done ****!

But let me tell you...the body on this woman would put damn near any of these net models to shame. I promise you. ELKE....put to shame. BUFFY...put to shame. All of em. I want to show the board a picture of her, but I don't think I'm going to be sneaking up trying to get no pix no time soon LOL! But when I tell you she's serious....that's that I mean. Her face, body, legs, walk...all that. I really don't see how with her being 40+, everything could be so on point the way it is. She's got money too, so I that doesn't help me at all.








Just need some advice on how I could at least get to know this lady. Post all your questions, and I'll answer.

How you know I'm really in need of this advice? I registered on this site just to ask for it. Read the advice before...and yeah I used to be a young playa myself, but seem to have fell off my grind somehow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'll be glad when the OG Playas come on the board.
 

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You're stalking her. Hit on other girls and don't develop oneitis, move on when rejected.
 

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Oh.

That's hard to believe. Stalkers are crazy. I'm far from crazy. Do guys really move on when rejected? In the past females have rejected me and we eventually became friends at least because when I see something I want I usually get it. Maybe not to day or tomorrow, but eventually. But, until someone else posts in the thread, I'll take your advice. Because God forbid, you end up being right.
 
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How do you know if she is 40+ and has money? If she has a ring on her finger than she is married and if she wanted you to approach her she would be stationery and not a moving target!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing said:
How do you know if she is 40+ and has money? If she has a ring on her finger than she is married and if she wanted you to approach her she would be stationery and not a moving target!!
I can tell from her face shes 40+. I can tell she has $ from the way she dresses.

I wish I could get close enough to see if she had a ring! That info is inconclusive though.

Yeah I rarely approach moving targets but I forced it.

Actually I never approach moving targets, but I never knew this was actually a saying until I came to this board LOL. "Never approach moving targets."

That's good ****en advice right there...but real spitters sort of know it anyway.

We need a thread on how to slow these moving targets. :D I got a lil advice for that. Unfortunately this lady target I speak about in the thread was ahead of me. Not really a way to stop those.
 

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Who cares about a 40 year old? I imagine there are atleast a few more available women around you that are more realistic for you to game. Don't worry about what could have been in an impossible situation. Worry about how to elevate your game with girls with POTENTIAL, and not TV drama situations that have little promise for you. It wouldn't have done you any good even if she did say yes. More than likely it would have led you to either a pointless ONS (which you wouldn't have learned from) or drama with her stringing you along (which ironically would have taught you something, but been painful). Long story short, get over it and find something useful to do with your time, then get back to us.
 

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PRMoon said:
Who cares about a 40 year old? I imagine there are atleast a few more available women around you that are more realistic for you to game. Don't worry about what could have been in an impossible situation. Worry about how to elevate your game with girls with POTENTIAL, and not TV drama situations that have little promise for you. It wouldn't have done you any good even if she did say yes. More than likely it would have led you to either a pointless ONS (which you wouldn't have learned from) or drama with her stringing you along (which ironically would have taught you something, but been painful). Long story short, get over it and find something useful to do with your time, then get back to us.
Hey my dude. Thx for the reply.

I'll forget about this lady...but older women are what I prefer. That's what I like. As far as POTENTIAL....not looking for a wife right now, just some super good quality uckin if you know what I mean.

ANd did you not read when I said......she puts these young chicks to shame? She puts these model chicks to shame....buffy, elke.....she put them all to shame? See...yall dont believe the **** I type.

But yeah...I'm moving on. F it.

There are some more females that are easier targets, you're definitely right. Asian chick....rican chick...but aint none of them ****ing with the 40 year old trust me. Wish I had a picture for yall.....then maybe you would understand a bit more where I'm coming from and why it was so hard to pass on it.
 

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Picture wouldn't do me any good anyway...I bang a playmate (yes I'm going to use that crutch till it falls off!) Still good for you, keep it real and make use of the variety around you. If she approaches you, then that's fine take action. Reality wise though, it's not worth it and you've got better things to do. Trust me when i say there are even more qualified girls out there waiting to jump you then this one.
 

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ok fellas. thx again. i appreciate it.

she's officially non-existent.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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