"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sup dudes, wanna know what u think bout this situation

HolyTrinity

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Okay, so I met this girl at a night club (shes 17 im 22) a few weeks back, after the club we went to her friends house and hung out till like 5 am watched bruno and she ended up passing out. I didnt sleep so i wrote my number and put it in her purse, and called a cab to go get my car (wasnt pakred there).

i didnt have her number so i could not call her...i tried to get a hold of her through a friend of hers on myspace but her stupid friend ignored me. so i was like whatever and just forgot about this girl i made out with the other night

3 weeks later, she called me, i had no idea who it was, i completely forgot about this girl basicly lol. she told me to come meet her at this club the same club we met i was like aight. so i went to her she was immediately all over me i was haha okay...so shes like take me back to ur place tonite i was like k. we went back to my place and had sex.

so that is the story bout that, she said she liked the sex :up: texted me after i dropped her off later in the day saying how she liked the sex.

well 5 days after all this, i feel like i need to see her, so i called her. didnt anser right away called back like a half hour later. we were talkin she said she was with her dad i asked her if she wanted to chill tomarrow. she was like well im goin to a party for my sister its like a toga party or some **** but you can come with me i was like okay. then she asked if i was gonna feel like out of place or something at the party or strange at the party or something like that. i was like no i wouldnt feel like that.

so basicly my questions r, was it a bad move to have called her 5 days later? should i have waited for her to call me like the first time? Is it a bad sign that she is with her dad when she called me? is goin to her sisters toga party thing a bad move or is it potentially a good move?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude chill out man.. If she enjoyed the sex then dont worry she'll come back for more, you dont have to worry about the nitty gritty. Goto this toga sh*t or whatever, she might want an approval from her sister that shes fu*kin u :D
 

HolyTrinity

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okay so i went to that party to see her. here she says some **** where im like wow...what the ****. shes says she wasnt that excited to see me at first but when i showed up she got excited...i was like okay...then she says something like she doesnt want me to lead me on into liking her or something....i was like I just want hit it...jk i didnt say that last part...

well anyway, we hung out and talked at this part for a bit, she asks to go back to my place, we do and again, we have sex....she gives me like a thousand complements, saying how amazing i am saying how my cok is the perfect size, how i have an awesome body and all this stuff...also, she treats me so good after sex shes so affectionate and all this crap. among other things he puusay was veery wet so i assume thats a good sign as well ha.

so...judging her by the first few things she says, it seemed like she has no interest in me at all. by the end of the night she makes me feel superhuman.

to tell u the truth, i dont really want a gf/bf relationship w/ her either. i would like to have sex w/ her though whenever possible. think i should continute to call this girl like the upcoming weekend or maybe 2 weekends from now? or just forget about her completely and maybe she'll call me up next time?
 

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HolyTrinity said:
...so...judging her by the first few things she says, it seemed like she has no interest in me at all. by the end of the night she makes me feel superhuman.
You've discovered one of the main inconsistencies with chicks... ignore what they say, watch what they do.

HolyTrinity said:
...to tell u the truth, i dont really want a gf/bf relationship w/ her either. i would like to have sex w/ her though whenever possible. think i should continute to call this girl like the upcoming weekend or maybe 2 weekends from now? or just forget about her completely and maybe she'll call me up next time?
Do what you want to do, I mean you wanted to see her and you rang her last time.

However I suspect that if you also had your hands full with another couple of chicks, you wouldn't have the time to focus on or worry about this one!
 

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What state are you hitting a 17 y.o chick?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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