"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sup bros quick question

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Sup guys. My question is : How can I make myself appear more open/friendly when walking or out in public?

I've had people tell me various times that I look rather intimidating. I'm not really a big guy either lol...thats the off thing about. Im not muscular nor tall. I must admit I am serious about alot of stuff (im really analytical about everything, I love to think deeply about little things alot lol - (OH THE IRONY IN THIS POST!) but I'm also a big goof! But any ideas guys? I just don't want to have to walk around with a huge grin on my face 24/7 lol. Thanks guys!
 

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confident afc said:
Sup guys. My question is : How can I make myself appear more open/friendly when walking or out in public?

I've had people tell me various times that I look rather intimidating. I'm not really a big guy either lol...thats the off thing about. Im not muscular nor tall. I must admit I am serious about alot of stuff (im really analytical about everything, I love to think deeply about little things alot lol - (OH THE IRONY IN THIS POST!) but I'm also a big goof! But any ideas guys? I just don't want to have to walk around with a huge grin on my face 24/7 lol. Thanks guys!
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Stand straight up chest high, think about the good things in life and enjoying whatever moment you're in, absorb the positives, should lighten you up, a lot of people get to caught up too much mentally in their personal problems/issues and it can show very easily. We all have them, lighten the **** up!! Try pointing something out that's comical. This is my approach.

an example : I like to walk in front of everyone and jokingly will lightly nudge/shove my girl or some other chic who's near me and say things like "want to fight!!!? I'll whoop your ass!"

I like to give hugs for random things too, Chic - "Omg had the worse day today, car died on the way too work it sucked " Me "awwww that sucks hun!" *open up arms to give a big hug, no ***** ass hug, hug her like man! *

It's hard to explain but instead of just analyzing every little thing scenario, just let loose and live in the moment. Hell like some rock stars they play their shows with raw passion as if it's the last time they'll be performing, cause you never know when you'll go!.

here read through this it's pretty goood, simple not on some over the top ****...
http://thenategreenexperience.com/blog/How+to+Meet+and+Date+Hot+(and+Smart!)+Girls/
some gold in there....
 
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Carlito nailed it.

I am very intimidating. When I'm thinking about something people tend to ask me what I'm mad about. I don't walk around with a smile. But when I see people, I make eye contact, I say hi, or hello in a confident voice and I smile when I do it. It may feel awkward at first, but the more you do it the easier it goes. Remember people are just like you on the inside. They are humans and want mainly the same thing that all humans want. An open nature and smile says, I'm not a threat.

Try living in the moment, getting outside of your head. And enjoy the moment.
 
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