"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sup bros quick question

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Sup guys. My question is : How can I make myself appear more open/friendly when walking or out in public?

I've had people tell me various times that I look rather intimidating. I'm not really a big guy either lol...thats the off thing about. Im not muscular nor tall. I must admit I am serious about alot of stuff (im really analytical about everything, I love to think deeply about little things alot lol - (OH THE IRONY IN THIS POST!) but I'm also a big goof! But any ideas guys? I just don't want to have to walk around with a huge grin on my face 24/7 lol. Thanks guys!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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confident afc said:
Sup guys. My question is : How can I make myself appear more open/friendly when walking or out in public?

I've had people tell me various times that I look rather intimidating. I'm not really a big guy either lol...thats the off thing about. Im not muscular nor tall. I must admit I am serious about alot of stuff (im really analytical about everything, I love to think deeply about little things alot lol - (OH THE IRONY IN THIS POST!) but I'm also a big goof! But any ideas guys? I just don't want to have to walk around with a huge grin on my face 24/7 lol. Thanks guys!
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Stand straight up chest high, think about the good things in life and enjoying whatever moment you're in, absorb the positives, should lighten you up, a lot of people get to caught up too much mentally in their personal problems/issues and it can show very easily. We all have them, lighten the **** up!! Try pointing something out that's comical. This is my approach.

an example : I like to walk in front of everyone and jokingly will lightly nudge/shove my girl or some other chic who's near me and say things like "want to fight!!!? I'll whoop your ass!"

I like to give hugs for random things too, Chic - "Omg had the worse day today, car died on the way too work it sucked " Me "awwww that sucks hun!" *open up arms to give a big hug, no ***** ass hug, hug her like man! *

It's hard to explain but instead of just analyzing every little thing scenario, just let loose and live in the moment. Hell like some rock stars they play their shows with raw passion as if it's the last time they'll be performing, cause you never know when you'll go!.

here read through this it's pretty goood, simple not on some over the top ****...
http://thenategreenexperience.com/blog/How+to+Meet+and+Date+Hot+(and+Smart!)+Girls/
some gold in there....
 
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Carlito nailed it.

I am very intimidating. When I'm thinking about something people tend to ask me what I'm mad about. I don't walk around with a smile. But when I see people, I make eye contact, I say hi, or hello in a confident voice and I smile when I do it. It may feel awkward at first, but the more you do it the easier it goes. Remember people are just like you on the inside. They are humans and want mainly the same thing that all humans want. An open nature and smile says, I'm not a threat.

Try living in the moment, getting outside of your head. And enjoy the moment.
 
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