"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sunglasses lens color?

SamMalone

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I am trying to decide which lens color would look best for me. I have brown hair and can get kind of pale in the winter so I'm thinking either brown or blue. Any tips of what type of sunglasses are "in style" right now?

*I've saved a lot of money the past few months and wouldn't mind spending a lot on a good pair.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SamMalone

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Bump.

Anyone have a recommendations as to what sunglasses would be good to get? I prefer smaller ones as opposed to big ones like aviators. What kind do you guys get?
 

doctoroxygen

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Get something like pink and stand out. Acrylic frames are in this season, as opposed to the last three years of wire-frame aviators.
 

dannowillbookem

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who spends alot of money on this crap? i stole a fifty dollar pair at the beach and theyre fine. black and simple.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Deadly_Assassin

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I use to work at a sunglass retail shop so I might be able to help you out. Post a pic of yourself and I might be able to tell you what kind would suit you or you could go to a sunglass store and then should be able to tell you what style should suit you.

I've saved a lot of money the past few months and wouldn't mind spending a lot on a good pair
Its worth spending the money on a good pair of Sunglasses. I would recommend Oakleys, Serengetis, Ray Bans, Maui Jims and Revo. I dont know much about other brands so I can not comment on them. If you are after a good pair of designer sunnies then probably go for Prada, Versace, Gucci or D&G.
 
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