"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CP3WOO

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I was just wondering...What would be a good way to pick-up a chic at Church? I'm not going to do it cause, well, I go to Church with a bunch of old women. However, my dad's church is crawling with some hot tail. If I decide to go to his (which is doubtful), what would be some good game to throw out?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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theunflushables

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Tell 'em your hung like Christ! :crackup:
 

CP3WOO

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WOW! theunflushables...just WOW!
 

theunflushables

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Yeah...don't really use that one, you might get slapped or kicked out of the church.
 

Metacomet

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WTF Dude?

I went to a private school as a kid and attended church pretty often. I can attest that 'good girls' are incredibly hot and easy to find at such places.

But still - it's fvcking CHURCH.

If you think you can pick girls up in front of their family who is often right next to them - go ahead.

Even if you find a lonely girl all by herself at church you run the risk of weirding her out or even insulting her.

I would say you have a 1/10 shot at Church.

Do yourself a favor and pick a different venue.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sodbuster

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Isn't going to be a "game" in Church. It will be a slow courtship with her friends and family looking on. NOW if, you meet her in the bar, all bets are off[her friends won't know and the Church won't know] I know of ministers daughters who were so stuck up,you'd think they'd die a virgin-well they were picked up and taken home by a married man
 

Alphamale1821

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ya my church has some pretty attractive ebony women and i hardly ever date black chicks, but damn they look pretty good and are very high status. Only problem i'm with my family and i don't really feel comfortable trying to pick up a girl in church.
 

marinetti

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Social proof in church

Meeting a girl in church is just like meeting her anywhere else. However, the service itself is a logistical nightmare. You have an hour or so of listening to the preacher, then everyone leaves.

The easiest way to do it would be over the course of multiple weeks. I would sit near the family, say hi to them, focusing especially on charming the parents. Do this for a few weeks and they won't care if you talk to their daughter.

Catch them at a potluck or something - that would be the easiest way.

If you wanted to actually get her number within the timeframe of one service, that would require some serious non-verbals on your part - fierce eye contact with her, and then try going to the bathroom at some point. If she's savvy, she'll follow you. Or follow her if she goes to the bathroom.

It's possible, but she would have to be just as well-versed in non-verbals as you are. The odds are low, but you'd be pretty awesome if you did it, I must say.
 

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I never said I actually WANTED to. I just want to know if it's possible haha

Good response marinetti
 

War Against Betaism

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I don't think it's worth it, I used to attend church and every so often the HBs would only show up at random services, plus the church I was at is very close, and I mean very VERY close, everyone knows each other. I try sleeping and the old people tap me to wake me up telling me how rude I am.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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