"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sun-Tzu

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This old coot must have been ball-deep in p00n.

In his Art of War, he states...

In order to grasp, you must let go.

War is all deception.

Anyone else see parallels between war and love?

Also, after scouring sosuave's articles, I've learned the ESSENCE of the site is to simply think, "F*** it." HB10 sitting all alone? F*** it, time to attack. F**** it, say what's on your mind. Now she's half naked with a smile and spread legs?

F*** it. It eliminates fear quite nicely.

I am in no way a Don Juan, Pedro, or whatever. But the people here seem nice, so here I am.

BTW, what does HB stand for? and what is sarging?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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HB = Ham and Bacon

Sarging = The act of buying HB
 

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This the most helpful post I've read !

Next hottie I see I gonna march right up to her & say " Fvck it ! "
 

Chillisauce

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Sun Tsu is all about winning at any cost, i'm not willing to sacrifice my own ethical standards to decieve everyone just yet :).

two things i DO like that he said:

'If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat.'

and

'Though we have heard of stupid haste in war, cleverness has never been associated with long delays'

Dont hesitate!
 

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HB= hot babe

Sarging= the act of going out and trying to pick up women


For more on the terminology, visit www.fastseduction.com and read the "You Are New" section.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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