"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Summertime- College girls

Mog116

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So as yall know its summer time and a lot of schools are finished up for the year...I met this girl at the very end of the year before I went home...She's attractive, good head on their shoulders, ect, ect.

How often should I keep in contact with her throughout the summer to keep in touch and get to know her?... we probably won't be able to see each other much cause we're in different cities.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ringleader41

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I created a topic similar to this. Would really like to know the answer?
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Depends on the type of relationship you have with her:

1. How did you get the number? Does she knows its more then a friendship.
2. Do you have a car?
3. How far is she away?
 
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