“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Summer weather makes me want to be single

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Seeing women everywhere in short shorts and exposed cleavage really makes me question if I want to be in a relationship (which I am) or be single and sleep around

Wondering how you guys deal with this (if you feel same way every time nicer weather hits)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I totally agree. It's obvious because they're dressing more freely due to the weather. Never really thought about it.
 

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It's definitely the fantasy of seeing a girl and imagining how the sex would be amazing but I remind myself of past experiences where the fantasy always won and it helps me appreciate my current girlfriend. But still, can't totally control the urges
 

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Honestly, I think all men obviously think the same way. The way I see it.... is what exactly would you do differently if you were single? Do you think you'd be banging all those brauds that you see walking the street? Just because you didn't have a girl in your life now? The answer is NO. But would you approach them and attempt to possibly date some of them? Probably YES. So if you'd rather be doing that... then to be with the girl you have now. By all means .... do whatever it is that will make you happier in life.

Otherwise it's just a fantasy and nothing more.
 

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That's exactly it, the fantasy that I'll approach and bang every single one. Which of course wouldn't be reality
 
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