"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Summer Time!

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tone_loc

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OK, not quite, but we're getting there! The reason I'm posting is because my impression is that girls get much friskier in the summer time, or when the sun's out. Girls start to wear the skimpy shorts, skirts, halter tops, man, just nasty!

Anyway, I've also noticed girls are more flirtatious. They are making solid eye contact with me now, and giving big grins. Have you guys noticed the same with girls? More flirtatious when it's hot outside?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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King Turi

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Haha, bucketin' down with rain here mate, everyone's coverin' up (I'm in Australia).
Pretty much winter time here.

In response to your question, well, depends on you really, if you are smiling and enjoying the sun, you'll probably get a better response than if you're looking all depressed or what not.

I for one love both sun and rain, woo.
 
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Just look at it from a purely psychological point...

Good weather puts people in a good mood in general. Good weather gives girls an excuse to wear skimpier, sexier clothing... Which makes them feel more attractive. So, you've got girls walking around looking hot and feeling good about themselves and life in general.
 
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