"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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summer means long distance college relationship... ground rules?

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Enjin 7

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whats up guys?

I've been seeing my first girlfriend ever for about 6 weeks now. we are really into each other, but the time has come for summer break at college.

we live maybe 300 miles from each other. we will be attending the same college this fall and after that.

anyway... how would you guys handle this? I don't really want to break up with her. some things to consider: we are both highly saught after by the opposite sex. breaking up means basically instant hookup with other people that we dont care about. you know, the relationship vultures that are just waiting for something to happen so that they may swoop down and hookup on the rebound.

what are some ground rules I could lay for the summer break? honestly, I am pretty nervous about the situation. Its never happened before, so I figured I would ask you guys for advice.

thx dudes :rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry about it. Try your best to see her every week or every other week. Maybe you two can meet half way. Or maybe you can spend a few days together going somewhere cool, like a camping spot. Maximize the fun as much as possible. If she's going to cheat, she will.
 
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Enjin 7 said:
what are some ground rules I could lay for the summer break?
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Ground rules?! What is she 5??!!

You can make all the rules you want and have them as long as the declaration of independence. You been with her for 6 weeks and now you want her to sacrifice 4 months??!! That doesn't make much sense. In 4 months most relationships go to hell when couples are together!!! and yet you want it to go smoothley when you are away from each other?!! Why are you depriving yourself for 4 months??!! Its a long time and by the time you will come back you might not even know her.

Break up with her and go see other women and if she is still available coming fall hook up with her again.

DJD
 
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