"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Summer Goals!!! Official Thread

grifter

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okay everybody, we all know that women like men who are ambitious, and who set goals and actually meet them. but even more, we DJ's should find our passion in life and work towards that. So here it is, the official thread for this summer's goals.


Everybody list 5 Goals they wish to achieve this summer, and at the end of summer, we will see how many we accomplished

1) Summer School
2) Get a 6 Pack
3) Get a good job and save up at least 2000$
4) 2200 rating at game (personal goal)
5) Finish summer school
6) Clear all acne LOL (serious)
7) learn to breakdance
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DA KID

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I want to
Start on the football Team
Read the Bible
Become more attractive
Get Faster
Enjoy life and have alot of fun
 

buckwheat18

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My goals for this summer:

1. Get my permit

2. Applying for a summer job

3. Getting buff in general

4. Growing some nice thick facial hair

5. Meeting new people and possibly making friends
 

hyd

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hi peeps,

im pretty ambitious this summer, mainly coz of buying the doubleYdating dvd and finding this wicked forum

if there's one thing that is going it's my looks, i look like a moviestar and 9's and 10's check me out all the time, i kinda get offended when girls dont flirt back lol

but when attracting girls overall without my looks im a total rookie, lately my perspective on looks has totally changed, i was so ignorant and thought looks could accomplish so much.. but just doesnt really

so im gonna work on:

1. Improving social skills, like walking up to anybody and have a nice convo and have some fun, im kinda reserved and even shy at times

2. when 1 is bit under controll im just gonna experiment all kinds of stuff on girls everywhere, see what works and what not, gonna be fun

3. get ripped, im on a high protein diet to get ripped atm, then gonna get some good muscle mass

4. finally find that damn ralph lauren wicked sunglasses my friend has, when i wear it i feel like a god, need to have one of my own

5. get a job doing something active, lot of social stuff going

just love this forum so full of resources amazing really :)
 

[look]aRhino

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hmmm. my goals for the summer:

1. Learn to speak french better.

2. Improve my basketball skills. I'll practice in my new neighbourhood.

3. Continue to get ripped more. I've got another 10 lbs to go. Then i'll bulk up with pure muscle.

4. Meet lots of new people, both guys and girls both in my summer course and in my new neighbourhood.

5. Paint and play more warhammer.

6. Continue to try and learn how to spray paint art.

7. And of course, get less shy and more experienced when it comes to women.

Rhino
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kourt

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1 get in better shape

2 improve social skills

3 keep my job

4 save money for college

5 enjoy summer


On a side note, Grifter you play Project Gothem Racing 2?
 

carbani

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1. Develop my company
2. Kiss Close
3. Visit Germany
4. Get friggin' muscles!
5. Learn new dancing figures
 

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1. Develop old and new friendships
2. Buy my fall wardrobe
3. Meet new people
4. Get wasted on both sides of the Pacific
 
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